smint Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 I read that after 3 weeks of NC,you and your ex are starting to miss each other the most,well that's true!!!I am on 24th day,and I miss him these days more than first 20 days!!!
Svet74 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 Yes that's very true. But I'm almost on month 3 now so I'm proud of myself for keeping up on it this long
MissBrunette84 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 That would explain why on the 3 week mark the last time, he turned up at my door...interesting.
Svet74 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 My ex always contacted me on the third week and that's when the limbo would start again. But this time on week 3 I rejected him and he has not tried since. He knows that either were gonna be together or not and there's no middle ground. I made that quite clear!
MissBrunette84 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 Have you done NC before and both times on week 3 they have been in touch? This is my second time of startng NC I'm a week in.
Author smint Posted May 20, 2012 Author Posted May 20, 2012 My ex hadn't contact me at all,neither after 3 weeks But it really is like that,I desperately wanted to contact him these days
Tree_Salmon Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 (edited) Have you done NC before and both times on week 3 they have been in touch? This is my second time of startng NC I'm a week in. I think its a proven psychological study that says the feeling of loss usually happens after 3-4 weeks. Which also means if you don't hear from them in the first month of no contact then you probably wont hear from them for a long time, if ever. I've been through it about 4 times so I've seen it happen. Currently I'm a few days over my first month of NC. So i guess shes really "serious" about her rebound. Life goes on. p.s: Much better picture now MissB Edited May 20, 2012 by Tree_Salmon
Svet74 Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 I did nc with me ex 3 times. And all 3 times he contacted me on week 3. 2 out of the 3 he called drunk. The 4rth time he didn't contact me. It's been 10 weeks. I don't think that it's true that they will never contact you again. Depends on the situation. Like I still see my ex a couple times a month cuz we go to the same church. Ever since we broke up he lost his job and trying to get his **** together. I think if he does call it will be with the right intentions. But right now he can't even ask me out to dinner
AsItIs Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 3 weeks,3 months,3 years I think there is something psychological about it. They say when people stop smoking, those times are most susceptible to relapse.
MissBrunette84 Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 I think its a proven psychological study that says the feeling of loss usually happens after 3-4 weeks. Which also means if you don't hear from them in the first month of no contact then you probably wont hear from them for a long time, if ever. I've been through it about 4 times so I've seen it happen. Currently I'm a few days over my first month of NC. So i guess shes really "serious" about her rebound. Life goes on. p.s: Much better picture now MissB We have been broken up 3 weeks, but no contact for just over one. I guess I have yet to see, but I think it is actually over for good this time. Thank you, I didn't know if I wanted my whole face all over a site, So my eyes will do haha.
Reddice Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 3 weeks,3 months,3 years I think there is something psychological about it. They say when people stop smoking, those times are most susceptible to relapse. I didn't even know this. My ex didn't contact me at the 3 week mark, nor at the 3 month mark (Almost 4 months have passed). She certainly won't be hearing from me either, so I guess she's history now.
Svet74 Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 Well since he didn't contact me this time in week 3. The 3rd month is coming up in nearly two weeks so he might make. Contact. If he doesn't then I guess he's over it.
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