messing with my head

[gemgem]

Broke up with bf on thurs and ever since ive been txtin him trying to get him bk cos i really missed him, he keeps sayins that he does wanna sort things out but not yet cos he needs to sort his depression... then he said he wants to sort things out and just be friends, hes messin wiv my head.. he even sed tht he was gona ask to get bk together but then changed his mind... whats weird is he still wants to meet up as mates etc really upsets me cos i love him to bits xx

[Own Worst Enemy]

i wish i'd walked away from it 9 months ago. it is still killing me because it is still limping on.

 

the problem is that it is ALL about them, and NONE of it is about you.

 

if i were you, i'd stop texting. use that space to think about what you want. just don't be like me and cling onto the friendship card...

[gemgem]

I dont want friendship, i just wanna be with him xx

[lovinglife21]

Well you broke up with him... and understandably he is confused. Leave him beto sort himself out and to figure out what he wants. Spend the time figuring out what you want to, because clearly you aren't 100% sure either.

 

Just cut contact until he reaches out to you.

 

xx

[gemgem]

ok, but he broke up with me xx

[lovinglife21]

Broke up with bf on thurs

 

Thats not what you said here.

 

In that case don't even consider going back to him! You will never be able to trust him fully again, and why would you want to be with someone who doesn't know what they want?

 

Go no contact and never look back

 

xx

[gemgem]

I just ment it as in we broke up, not I broke up with him.. i love him so much though xx

[lovinglife21]

Sure, but how much do you love yourself?

 

You owe it to yourself to be with someone who can fully appreciate you.

 

xx

[gemgem]

I understand what u mean....

 

I havent txt him today anyway and he hasnt txt me

 

keep checking my phone..

 

so wish he would get in touch, miss him lots xx