I've to dumb him, but I dunno how!?

[Roca]

We've been together for 5 months and many times I asked him to announce our relationship on facebook but he always answers that he doesn't want anyone to know about his personal life. He accepts any new friend on facebook also and I told him that makes me upset but also he always answers he won't talk with them as he doesn't have time to chat on facebook. I asked a friend of mine to add him from a fake account, he accepts her request and they talked together, she asked him if he's in a relationship he answered " I've never been in a relationship and I don't think about being in a relationship now". I know I've to dumb him immediately but he doesn't know yet about this girl. All I want is tell him that I know about this and he doesn't deserve me in his life ,,,, . but I need a way to tell him so, a way that may kill him of doing this with me.. please try to answer ASAP

[d'Arthez]

It sounds like it is convenient for him to pretend he is single. Sounds like he may be fooling around or even cheating on you behind your back. Don't even be surprised if there is another girl in his life.

 

Better to get out as soon as you can. He does not deserve you, not the other way around.

[Roca]

I know I have to do so, but I don't want to dumb him and everyone leave in peace, I want to hurt him as much as he did to me.

[d'Arthez]

This is a situation in which you cannot win Roca. If you try to hurt him, that will only reflect poorly on you. Or even worse, he will come and try to win you back.

 

He is simply not worth it. You don't need extra drama in your life. You are better off going No Contact with him, and leave him high and dry. That makes him the problem of someone else.

[Roca]

Ok

I'll do this and thanks for your quick advice d'Arthez .

[d'Arthez]

You are more than welcome. It won't be easy, but if you need more support, don't hesitate to come back for some.

[Roca]

Of course I will ^_^