Follower Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 So its another day since she left. I just don't feel like i am any further on, we haven't spoken in well over 3 months, and by speak i mean emailed. I Feel rather lost, i still miss her like crazy despite not knowing ANYTHING about where she is at what she is up to how she is?! In the past few days i have been having really strong urges to contact her, i don't know why, I thought/hoped i was past all this crap. Its not as if im depressed, things are going rather well for me if i am honest. I just need a reset button, one that puts me back to before i met her.
Frank13 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 I am just like you and just posted on the "Post Here Instead of Contacting Your Ex" thread. Been moving forward and am pretty happy with my life. Been 4.5 months strict NC. I ran into her, work related, about a month ago, We ignored each other and spoke very little and all work related. Had no desire to speak to her. After seeing her, I felt I turned a corner. Like the image of her was shattered. I was great for a about a week and then I started missing her really bad. Now a month later I miss her like crazy. I have had the urge to break NC but I won't because I know it won't fix anything. I too thought I was getting past all this. I too am more happy than I have been in a long time. I too wish I felt like before I met her. So why now are we missing them so bad?
foolishlover Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 I have been NC for 3 weeks (probably still very premature in comparison with everyone else) and I thought I was doing pretty good. Out of the blue I feel like I miss him so much. I dont know what the onset was. I cried it out and now I feel like I am back in square one again. I dont feel i want to break NC cause I have no idea what i want to say. Its a dead relationship and nothing will ever eventuate. It is nonetheless very sad and I think it will be a long time before i find my new normal again. I also want a reset button..
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