Chi townD Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 Yeah, it sad sometimes that we're blinded bylove not to see the red flags until they're too late. Has she tried contacting you again? 1
ToyWithMe812 Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 You DROVE her to sleep with someone else? Yeah....right. You didn't do a damned thing accept be a faithful boyfriend. She made a choice. She decide to cheat on you. You didn't do that. She did. Look, here's a good rule of thumb. You can be blamed for 50% of the problems in the relationship and she can take ownership of the other 50%. But her cheating on you with her personal trainer is 100% on her. You didn't drive her to do it, she made a choice. And her choice was to cheat. DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF FOR HER CHEATING!!! She had the power to say "no" and she didn't. Now, that she knows that you know the truth, NOW she wants to talk to you. To explain that this was entirely your fault. She's guilty and she knows it. She would have probably gone as far as to say that the PT had NOTHING to do with the break up. Nothing happened till AFTER the break up ( cough...cough...Bullsh*t). This won't be the last time you here from her. Even though she said, " Right then I'll block you from my life too!" I can assume that you're gonna get another text here shortly stating something along the lines of, "After six years together at least you owe me at least one more conversation!" Her guilt is probably going to get the better of her. Ignore it. Time to heal and move on. I found out after, and still made the stupid mistake of begging for reconciliation (we were together 10 years). Well, not a mistake so much as it is human. Anyhow, she never told me, I found something in her place (not snooping, it was out in the open) and asked/tricked her about it and she told the truth. Well, still maintained she didn't cheat (yeah right, as if it matters anyhow), but when I explained how much pain I was in she told me that it was all my fault, how much I was hurting. Even left thinking how much it actually happened, but it serves no purpose now. They mutate in the blink of an eye. So, 10 years wasted, and moving on slowly but surely.
Author mpz Posted May 24, 2012 Author Posted May 24, 2012 Yeah she still tries to call me.... The number of calls per day is going down however
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