jampot Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 (edited) So post breakup I met up with a guy, a friend of a friend, we'd never managed to both be single at the same time. Now he is in a different state but I was visiting and so we caught up. I thought to hell with it and we started making out. Then him being a gentleman says no, we can't you've said yourself you're not like that, that I would regret it, it wouldn't feel right and he said I'm the girlfriend type of girl. I kept making out and told him I wanted him (I think back and cringe) and it got a bit awkward.. I probably seemed desperate.. I spose I made it awkward. At the time the making out was fun, I felt attractive and wanted.. sometimes I wish I could just let loose but I can't. Anyway it's taken my mind off the ex a bit, true but now I feel like it's just created more drama for myself and honestly, I feel lonelier than ever. I just needed to get it off my chest. Edited May 20, 2012 by jampot Spelling 1
Reddice Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 I've learnt that you should just do whatever the hell makes you feel better at this stage. Many people would not advice you to go through a rebound, I beg to differ. Your goal should be your own happiness right now and if making out and shagging around makes you happy, even if only for a short while, you should do it. I've learnt that happiness stacks. So you feel like crap after, but the more happy moments you create, the more it stacks and the better you slowly but surely start feeling. Never thought I'd say this, but: I know now that I'd rather be selfish than heartbroken.
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