danny8630 Posted June 24, 2004 Posted June 24, 2004 Im in a bit of a predicament where im sure others can relate to me. My first love and I broke up after 4 great, romantic months. About 3 months into it, she says "i dont know how i feel about us right now". i said "how is that possible". she continues and says "Im feeling numb about things". It has now been almost a month after the break up. We still talk and "mess around", we still say "I love you". She does not sleep around and has only been with 2 guys including me, and the kid before me had cheated on her... However, she "doesnt want a boy friend". Im so very confused, I DO NOT want to call her and hang out with her because i know i am just hurting myself but i cave in and call anyway. My main message i guess is for a rough analysis of my situation, and some suggestions. I dont know whether or not to keep pursuing or just back off completely
cinnamonstix49 Posted June 25, 2004 Posted June 25, 2004 Danny-- It sounds to me as if the two of you make better best friends than you do a couple. I suggest trying to be friends for a while, going places with other friends and doing things in groups, it is less painful that way. If you are still too uncomfortable for that though, I would suggest staying away from her for a while until you have healed. If you are meant to be together, then you will be together no matter what. Best Wishes.
Author danny8630 Posted June 25, 2004 Author Posted June 25, 2004 It hurts to take that in because i love her a lot. She says the same thing "if it was meant to be", stuff like that. But i dont know what she means by it? i dont know if shes saying it to get by real easy or if she does mean it and something happens in the future. We've been downgraded to friends for the last month. We still see each other but not as frequently. Im just scared that we'll lose touch and mostly lose my friend.
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