metalambience Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 Everyone gives advice on the approach, but how do you complete the next step of asking a girl out? There's a random girl who's a regular at the coffee shop I've cold approached and lightly conversed with a few times, but all I know about her personally is her first name. What now? And how do i find out if she has a boyfriend or if shes into me? (she smiles a lot at me but declined one day when i suggested we sit together). My friends say youyou ask a girl to"hang out" as friends by inviting her to the bar / museum/ concert ebefore asking her out on a date. My other friends say directly ask her out to dinner. What would you do?
truth_seeker Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 Next time you see her, you say hi, chat a little bit, then ask her for her number. Another approach: you chat and ask her if she heard about an event going on, it could be anything that's happening in your area, music festival, art gallery, whatever. If she sounds excited about it, mention that you're going, you should both go together, and for her to give you her number so you can make plans to attend together.
Fondue Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 Not to be a dick, but I keep things simple. She's already declined sitting with you, she's not interested. 1
Author metalambience Posted May 20, 2012 Author Posted May 20, 2012 ohh I was just assuming it was because I asked too soon (3rd time seeing her)...bummer
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