Rahstyles Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 Seriously If im not gonna marry you then then i rather not date you and waste my time and money. I dont know about you.. but if i chose to date sombody longer than 2 days then I plan on marrying you... Cause i dont like the feel of break ups
january2011 Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 (edited) if i chose to date sombody longer than 2 days then I plan on marrying you... Wow, you don't spend a lot of time on major life decisions, do you? I don't like the feeling of break ups either. Though I think I'd still need more than two days of dating someone to make a decision about whether or not to marry them. Edited May 19, 2012 by january2011
goldengirl11 Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 Wow, you don't spend a lot of time on major life decisions, do you? I don't like the feeling of break ups either. Though I think I'd still need more than two days of dating someone to make a decision about whether or not to marry them. You mean two years? I love your pic by the way.
january2011 Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 You mean two years? I love your pic by the way. Thanks Goldengirl - yes, I'm sure it's a typo. Surely, it's a typo.
DjinnAgain Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 I wouldn't continue dating somebody once I realized there was no chance I was going to marry them - though that can take a while to suss out. It was different when I was younger, since I had no plans on marrying anybody. Was more interested in Mr. Right Now than Mr Right and so marriage-potential meant nothing. (Didn't work out for me to marry Mr Right Now, for the record! haha) It depends on what you're going for - if you're younger vs if you're older could make a diffference.
ladyabstrused Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 If you're going to find out who the right person is to marry, you're going to have to spend more than just 2 dates to do that.
JaySonM Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 Seriously If im not gonna marry you then then i rather not date you and waste my time and money. I dont know about you.. but if i chose to date sombody longer than 2 days then I plan on marrying you... Cause i dont like the feel of break ups yeah because it takes 2 days to know a person. Dude, you are smart.
insertnamehere Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 if i chose to date sombody longer than 2 days then I plan on marrying you In my experience, this seems to be how long every woman I've ever been involved with took to go nuts over me. As to the OP's question: 1. Loneliness sucks. 2. Sex (in most cases) is better than my hand. 3. Why not go out on Friday night?
Oxy Moronovich Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 Seriously If im not gonna marry you then then i rather not date you and waste my time and money. I dont know about you.. but if i chose to date sombody longer than 2 days then I plan on marrying you... Cause i dont like the feel of break ups As if marriage is the ultimate way to express your love. What about divorce? Is that the ultimate way to express contempt? The divorce rate is at 50%. That shows people don't view marriage as the strong bond it used to be.
Pierre Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 It basically comes up to this: Do people date for sport? Do people date looking for a long term relationship? I suppose that marriage is implied in the latter. I personally never dated for sport. My heart was always into dating and if I did not feel it I backed away. I suspect these are the intentions of the OP.
KathyM Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 I think it doesn't make sense to spend time on someone who you know is not right for you, because that will only take your time and attention away from finding someone who is. And it also leads to heartbreak, or worse yet, convincing yourself to get more serious about someone who is not a match because you've developed feelings for that person over time. Better to let them go as soon as you realize they are not relationship material.
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