MissBrunette84 Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 3 weeks on tomorrow my ex broke up with me, 6 days NC so far and feeling better. Better than I was anyhow. The thing is in 4 weeks, we be at the same music festival which is a 3 day event. I'm really worried about bumping into him and I'm really not a horrible person by heart, I feel awful just ignoring someone or pretending they are not there or exist. It just plays on my mind even more then. I was thinking of asking to be friends before the festival incase we bump into each other, thinking then it wouldn't be bitter or anything. I can say Hi and carry on my merry way. If I don't bump into him then its even better as I don't have to get into that whole situation, but at least if it possibly does happen, I don't have to hide behind something lol I'm not wanting to be close friends, just so it can be civil if we ever see eachother. We sometimes hang out at the same places. I have completely avoided them altogether but when I feel better I don't want to have to continue avoiding the places I love in fear its gonna be weird. I'm confused as what to do for the best... I don't hold any grudges or bitterness.. just don't know which is the best foot forward?
january2011 Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 I say no, until it doesn't hurt anymore. I don't see the point in forcing yourself to be friends when inside you feel like dying from all the pain. Of course, be polite, but don't pretend that you're friends, when you're still grieving the relationship.
Author MissBrunette84 Posted May 19, 2012 Author Posted May 19, 2012 Ok, thank you. Plus he might be with his new girlfriend and I don't want to disrespect her and make her feel awkward either. I'm not that kind of person.
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