irc333 Posted May 18, 2012 Posted May 18, 2012 Okay, I FINALLY get a response on POF , I sent a pretty well written introductory email...noticed she was in the medical field and asked what she does in the medical field and how long she's been single and living in the city she's living in. Her response "pharmacy Ive lived here since I was 15 Chicago" And I "LOL" and replied, "You're a woman of few words, are you new to this dating site?" her" "no" EIther she's lacking in social skills or has a mild disability? (not making funt here, just saying) I should say, "Me Tarzan, YOU Jane, me like your boobs, me want to squeeze!"
Star Gazer Posted May 18, 2012 Posted May 18, 2012 EIther she's lacking in social skills or has a mild disability? (not making funt here, just saying) I should say, "Me Tarzan, YOU Jane, me like your boobs, me want to squeeze!" Or, she feels obligated to respond to every message she receives and hopes her curt responses give you the hint.
Andy_K Posted May 18, 2012 Posted May 18, 2012 Or, she feels obligated to respond to every message she receives and hopes her curt responses give you the hint. This^ She's not writing much because she's not interested in you, but is putting out the minimum reply due to politeness/boredom
Author irc333 Posted May 18, 2012 Author Posted May 18, 2012 Or, she feels obligated to respond to every message she receives and hopes her curt responses give you the hint. Meh, it looked to grammatically incorrect for that, she might not be "with it" in the head or is socially inept. She even had a picture of picture as opposed to a real picture posted. Which is kind of strange.
sid3 Posted May 18, 2012 Posted May 18, 2012 I should say, "Me Tarzan, YOU Jane, me like your boobs, me want to squeeze!" Why not, whatever you have been doing has obviously not been working out too well.
Star Gazer Posted May 18, 2012 Posted May 18, 2012 Meh, it looked to grammatically incorrect for that, she might not be "with it" in the head or is socially inept. She even had a picture of picture as opposed to a real picture posted. Which is kind of strange. Her profile was obviously written in a way you could understand and that interested you. It sounds to me like she's just not interested in putting in effort to communicate with you. You read way too much into these things, and always assume there's something wrong with the other person. I don't think that's the case. 1
Author irc333 Posted May 21, 2012 Author Posted May 21, 2012 I seem to recall a couple of other responses, weren't necessarily in short hand, but they would answer questions that I had asked, but that was it. Me: "Hey, I'm in the sales field, too. I see you say you're in sales, what do you do in sales, and what product do you sell?" Her: I work in accounting and we sell widgets" She would pretty much answer my questions, but she wouldn't say anything like this: "I work in accounting and sell widgets, how about yourself? What does your company sell?" They don't fire back a "What about you" type question. Of course, I tend to reply anyhow, considering that they responded...because some response is better than none, after that...they don't respond, or answer one more email and then stop responding. I hear accounts from other men complaining about "Yeah, she responds, but....she doesn't ask any questions about who I am and what I do." better off just saying, "I"m sorry, but I don't think we're compatible" or "Sorry not interested" as oppose to hooking a guy in into a one-sided conversation
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