ChangeMyName Posted May 18, 2012 Posted May 18, 2012 We had an awesome time and seemed to really hit it off on the first date. We also had a few short, passionate make out sessions, and she texted me after the date saying she had a great time. I'm going to ask her out for a 2nd, but what I was thinking of putting in my text miiiight be a bit cheesy.. "Hey *name*, my week turned out to be more hectic than I thought! But I'm totally taking you out one night this week, and I'm not gonna lie, I've kinda been craving another taste of your lips ..What days are you free?" Opinions?
Andy_K Posted May 18, 2012 Posted May 18, 2012 Go for it. Some will say that it's too keen or too cheesy, and some will say making a comment about kissing her again shows confidence and/or builds anticipation. I think if your first date went that well, and she texted you afterwards, you can say pretty much anything within reason and get a second date. The important thing here is not what you say, but that you don't sweat it too much.
Author ChangeMyName Posted May 18, 2012 Author Posted May 18, 2012 Don't text her. CALL HER. I usually don't start calling till after I'm legitimately dating a girl. Plus I set the first date up through text, why should I change all of a sudden?
SmileFace Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 Yeah, don't do that. I am in no way a prude but a text about wanting to visit my lips will give me the impression that you are only interested physically. I am not saying the message my convey that or that your intention but I think as a text it may not translate well.
Feelsgoodman Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 We had an awesome time and seemed to really hit it off on the first date. We also had a few short, passionate make out sessions, and she texted me after the date saying she had a great time. I'm going to ask her out for a 2nd, but what I was thinking of putting in my text miiiight be a bit cheesy.. "Hey *name*, my week turned out to be more hectic than I thought! But I'm totally taking you out one night this week, and I'm not gonna lie, I've kinda been craving another taste of your lips ..What days are you free?" Opinions? Extremely cheesy and too verbose for a text message. Just say "hey, how about meeting for drinks on wednesday"?
Author ChangeMyName Posted May 19, 2012 Author Posted May 19, 2012 Yeah, don't do that. I am in no way a prude but a text about wanting to visit my lips will give me the impression that you are only interested physically. I am not saying the message my convey that or that your intention but I think as a text it may not translate well. Thanks. I was thinking kinda the same thing. A little over the top since it's only been one date - even though it was a great time. I think I'll shorten it to: "Hey *name*! It's been hectic lately, but I'm totally taking you out this week. Which nights are you free?"
writergal Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 I usually don't start calling till after I'm legitimately dating a girl. Plus I set the first date up through text, why should I change all of a sudden? Legitimately dating a girl? What is your definition of legitimate? In person? I don't know how old you are but texting a woman for a date shows a total lack of respect for her and outs you as "emotionally unavailable." Calling her up on the phone to ask her out is completely "legitimate." Texting a date invite to a woman you barely know is the equivalent of an electronic Post-It Note. Post-It/Texts: Lame-o. Watch and learn: FYI: Minute 1:12
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