hurt_nobye Posted May 18, 2012 Posted May 18, 2012 two years ago my boyfriend and I started dating. Well almost two years July 2, 2010. I was a virgin, so i did not want to give it up, not right away at least... In March of last year, I made him admit he cheated on me, so he did and told me who what where when why and how........i broke up with him. the next day, he called me CRYING his eyes out. telling me how sorry he was how stupid he is, how much she didn't mean to him. He made me so many promises of what he'll do and not do and if i said i want you to jump he would say is this high enough...I finally agreed to the terms of our new relationship and we got back together. I was soooo happy because he basically worshiped the ground i walked on, loved me like no one else ever did, did anything i ever wanted, then i gave him my virginity...since then...i completely lost all trust in him...i remember him cheating whenever he wants to go or do anything without me and i dont let him or dont want to let him...i start so much fights maily because i cant trust him AT ALL not even a little bit...he took his fb passwords away from me, and now i freak out thinking maybe he is talking to girls in messages on fb, i dont want him to get his phone turned on cause im scared he'll text or call girls when im not around...when he doesnt pick up his house phone i think he is with that girl or another one cheating on me again...i know that trust is the most important thing in a relationship, so HOW IN THE WORLD do i trust him again??? how can i erase this fear???
CopingGal Posted May 18, 2012 Posted May 18, 2012 I felt like I couldn't trust my bf at the time. He had confessed to cheating on his former girlfriend. But I was happy he was honest and I did not want to judge him. Then I kept catching him in lies...most of them though, he confessed to me. I didn't trust him, but I kept forcing myself to try to trust him...to not judge him...over and over, forcing myself to trust him. In the end, he cheated on me and had a great time doing it and then confessed more lies he told me. If you don't trust him, honor that. Don't try to force yourself to trust someone. 1
Author hurt_nobye Posted May 21, 2012 Author Posted May 21, 2012 did you forgive him and get back with him? did he beg for you to come back?
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