bodybuilderinnewyork Posted May 17, 2012 Posted May 17, 2012 She is in med school and failed her semester. Decided she will stay there to see if she can get back in next semester. Anyway I have not made any effort to contact her. I figured she heard my piece and if she still wants to leave me then how can I convince her to love me? (she said if she loved and missed me she would be lieing) So since then she has contacted me three times just basically asking how everything is etc. The first convo I just didnt respond to her after awhile, the second convo I did not message her back anything, so a few days later today she just messages me out of nowhere how I am and that its raining like crazy there, I asked her how her best friend enjoyed the island where my ex girlfriend is going to school. All was casual then in the middle of me responding she just writes "anyway hope you are having fun I will ttyl" in the middle of me responding I was on my way to a BBQ she just said "K bye" then logged off. I am coming to terms with everything but why is she contacting me? And its always when I am feeling good or about to have fun. Is this what game playing is? Is this some sort of power play because she wants drama?
WonderKid Posted May 17, 2012 Posted May 17, 2012 You guys are broken up right? If I were you, she could play all the games she wants but I am single and the ball is in my court. I am not gonna sit and play her game. I "will" however, hit on other girls and not let her know I am miserable. That's for sure.
Author bodybuilderinnewyork Posted May 18, 2012 Author Posted May 18, 2012 Thanks for the reply. You are right I live in the best city in the world. But I am just curious what's going on in her head.
WonderKid Posted May 18, 2012 Posted May 18, 2012 I wouldn't even worry about it. Let her figure that **** out. And she should hope it's not too late before you hook up with somebody else. Lol
Tree_Salmon Posted May 18, 2012 Posted May 18, 2012 I say move on and forget these messages. Shes playing games. Trust me I've seen it. Especially if shes from S.I. Dating girls in this city is a major gamble.
Author bodybuilderinnewyork Posted May 18, 2012 Author Posted May 18, 2012 She is from Queens and now lives in the Carribean. I get what you guys are saying just become an alpha male, I totally was before this relationship went long distance. When I broke up w girls I wouldn't contact them at all. If I did it was because I still wanted something.
Author bodybuilderinnewyork Posted May 20, 2012 Author Posted May 20, 2012 So guys, She contacted me on Friday and said " so I guess that's it? Nothing else to talk about? Not worth fighting for? I am glad you are alive then. I told her she was the one who said she didn't love me or miss me then she said "but at the end of that email I said I will always love you and you will be apart of me" and that " that me not missing or loving you was how I felt at the time" I told got mad and just said this isn't how you treat people, I stopped contacting you because I assumed by your actions you are over me and found someone else. What else could I have done.." She told me she still isn't over me then starting messaging me less and less because one of her 7 cats is getting sick from eating termites. The conversation ended with us just talking about or respective lives but nothing else I sure as hell didn't say I love you or miss you. What gives? She also said "you will never come and visit me" "I think its still a bad idea to come down to my island" "its a total s**thole save your money" What gives?
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