journey3 Posted June 24, 2004 Posted June 24, 2004 How do you stop seeing someone, when you really care? I'm seeing some red flags, & my mind tells me stop, but I really don't know how? Please help. Thanks
Author journey3 Posted June 24, 2004 Author Posted June 24, 2004 Here are some details, we were talking on his porch, & I asked him why he didn't where cologne, & as I asked his younger roommate came out & he wheres cologne, I guess I took a deep breathe & he thought I wanted his roommate, well he got mad, another: on our 2nd date we met at a bar, he brought a friend, & the guy I was seeing got mad & left cause I was talking to his friend, but he wasn't talking to me, another: I called him for 4 days straight & left messages he never called back, said he was too busy, & I'll go over to his house & if he's falling asleep, I leave, & then he tells me the next day, he couldn't sleep & him & his roommate go out. He tells me its strange for me to go to the bar by myself, but he goes to topless bars, I have friends that work there, & I go 1 a week.He gives me alot of mixed signals, verbal & phsyical, he says he cares alot about me & he misses me when I use the bathroom, but then he won't call for days, & when we do talk on the phone, its just How r u & hang up, he says the signal from cell phone,is different, & I'm too plain. He expressed to me the other day He absolutly hates boring sex, if that happens he ends it. He's been cheated on alot in the past. I find i excuse him, I don't want to do that anymore.I just don't want to like him as much as I do! Why are the so many weirdos out there?
lnichols Posted June 24, 2004 Posted June 24, 2004 Geez. I don't know if he really sounds like he likes you that much. And by "boring sex", does he mean that, I don't know, like you won't let him tie you up or something? Maybe you should just talk to him and tell him that you like him but doesn't know how he feels about you based on the signals he is giving you. He may really like you, he is just emotion-impaired! If he does like you, talking to you may make him wake up. In the meanwhile, you can't just sit around waiting on him to call. Go places and do things. Maybe you will meet someone you like more.
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