trishlove Posted May 17, 2012 Posted May 17, 2012 dumped my ex because he cheated on me. After that we maintained contact and he kept telling me he loves me and that he feels sorry for everything, etc. I told him I'm moving on without him and he's a ****. Less than a month after that he jumped into a relationship with the girl he cheated with. He never told me about it, a common friend did. So I decided to cut all communication right away, and the last thing he texted me was that he loves me and that hopefully someday I'll forget the bs he did. So after two days of no contact he started texting me again occasionally. After a while I decided to reply and ask him why he got into a relationship so fast. He then admitted that he did so just so he could forget about me and move on (thus, a rebound probably). And he admitted that their relationship is unstable, but they are trying to work on it. Turns out, the other woman isn't as nice as he thought he was. It's been only less than a month and her true colors already came out. So he told me not to refrain myself from dating others, but he did want to meet me this June. Can some of you guys predict what may come out of the deep **** he's gotten himself into? Is there a chance that he'll come back to me? Should I remain friends with him while I date others or should I just cut contact?
Million.to.1 Posted May 17, 2012 Posted May 17, 2012 You broke up with him. I don't understand what you want. Why don't you just leave him alone so he can move on with his life? 1
Author trishlove Posted May 17, 2012 Author Posted May 17, 2012 yes, i did. but it was because he was cheating on me. i couldn't keep the relationship continuing if i know he has someone else behind my back. i was moving on quite fairly until he kept texting me, telling me his new rebound with the other girl is getting difficult for him. i asked him if he wants to get back with me and he said he is hoping, but is confused. now i am confused as well since i still have feelings for this guy. :/
Coffee20 Posted May 17, 2012 Posted May 17, 2012 Maybe he will really want to get back...but for me you did a right thing, now you need some time apart from him just to figure out what you want. I would never want to be in a relationship where my bf would cheat on me again. I was there and I now really believe if someone cheats on you, he/she will do it again, because he did and not only once. Could you trust him again after what he did? Actually, I wouldn't be able.
Jono85 Posted May 17, 2012 Posted May 17, 2012 he's keeping you on the back burner. and apparently it's working. this doesn't end well.
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