NorthernPenguin Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 (edited) How long does it take to get over a person? I have to stop thinking about them soon right? I mean we were together going on 9 month all this time I was told they didn't want to be in a relationship with labels 'theyr scared' well someone else came along and the same day I was dumped. The new girl who has only been on the scene 2 weeks has got commitment and a relationship, everything I was denied. Kinda makes me ask the question, what was so wrong with me? To add more to the insult, I'd managed no contact since the break up two weeks ago then today I broke it saying how I'm not over it and I miss them, then I seen the relationship thing and it hurt alot. I gave all these months and got nothing but broken promises, this girl gives two weeks and gets everything I always wanted. My messages were ignored as I've been cut out of there life ever since they dumped me. How can they not feel bad? I'd feel awful. Once again I ask, what's wrong with me? Why not me? Back to day 1 of no contact? I remember the I love you's and how I wasn't given the labels but was told that we were together which ment we couldn't date others. Edited May 16, 2012 by NorthernPenguin
Svet74 Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 He sounds like a doosh who was using you the whole time
Author NorthernPenguin Posted May 16, 2012 Author Posted May 16, 2012 He sounds like a doosh who was using you the whole time I have to agree with this .
Ross MwcFan Posted May 17, 2012 Posted May 17, 2012 It doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with you. All it means is that the guy wasn't feeling it, and he is a dick for ignoring you. Pretty much every single person experiences unrequited love, it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them.
Author NorthernPenguin Posted May 17, 2012 Author Posted May 17, 2012 It doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with you. All it means is that the guy wasn't feeling it, and he is a dick for ignoring you. Pretty much every single person experiences unrequited love, it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them. Thats very true, wish he hadnt waited the full 9 months to figure out it wasnt what he wanted.
Own Worst Enemy Posted May 17, 2012 Posted May 17, 2012 the thought of feeling like this for even another day is horrific. i think we can only take it one day at a time. this is the longest we've gone without contact in the last 12 months (today is day 5) and it hurts so badly that i'm actually in physical pain. i'm also thinking that he can't be that bothered, or he would contact me. urrrrgh.
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