canoeracer Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 So I matched very well with this woman on a site and I saw that she rated my profile highly. I sent her a short message asking her about what kind of art she does and she mentioned she used to take dance but stopped and now just paints. I replied saying that I remember my mom forcing my sister to go dance classes. I then said that I like to photograph and was lucky enough to have been introduced to something I enjoy at a young age. I then asked her if she was originally from the area. So that was almost two days ago and she hasn't responded. Normally I wouldn't care and would delete the convo, but this woman seems really cool. So: Did I say something out of line? Should I send a follow up message? If so, what? Thanks!
january2011 Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 If she was online but dind't respond, then I suspect her interest waned or she lost interest altogether. I suggest messaging other women and if the woman in your OP responds, then you can pick up the conversation again but otherwise, just keep pursuing other options.
Author canoeracer Posted May 16, 2012 Author Posted May 16, 2012 If she was online but dind't respond, then I suspect her interest waned or she lost interest altogether. I suggest messaging other women and if the woman in your OP responds, then you can pick up the conversation again but otherwise, just keep pursuing other options. Ok, thanks. I guess I just don't understand how someone's interest can fall after ONE message.
january2011 Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 Ok, thanks. I guess I just don't understand how someone's interest can fall after ONE message. We don't know what's going on at her end - she could have a number of conversations on the go and perhaps decided to take one of those to the next level and therefore dropped the others, which, I'm sorry, included you. OLD requires thick skin and most of the time you don't get closure for every person you meet on there. Just got to pick yourself up and keep going. You got a response and can get another one.
NorthernPenguin Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 Message other women, dont give her a follow up message as ive noticed alot of guys do that on dating sites. Also some people dont check there messages daily. If she replys then talk with her if not then move on, people on dating sites have high expectations thats how they loose interest in my opinion.
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