Rabbit-foot Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 So, on Friday, I'll be going on a trip with a prof of mine. It came about like this; he found that we had a common interest (comics), he told me about a big event/conference and invited me to come along. That's pretty normal in my book, but then he offered to drive me/share a hotel room. I accept the drive but got my own hotel room. He's young (in his 30's) and single (as far as I can tell). We used to dislike eachother but gradually warmed up to eachother near the end of the semester, especially after viewing eachothers art (Fine Arts department). My question is, is this normal behavior for a professor or does he like me? Or maybe he's just overly friendly? He's incredibly difficult to read since he's so outgoing... Any advice?
Author Rabbit-foot Posted May 16, 2012 Author Posted May 16, 2012 Also should mention, I just graduated from university so we're techinically not student and teacher anymore.
oldshirt Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 If you were to ask your grandmother this question, what would her reply be?? Well she's right. Any guy that asks you to go somewhere and do something with him and he's offering to foot the bill and drive and put in the work to make it happen it's because he wants more than to read some comics. And any woman that questions that concept is either incredibly naive or is looking for reassurance that what she already knows deep down is accurate, so yes, he wants to do you.....but you surely already knew that right?
pteromom Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 He wanted to share a hotel room... there's your answer right there. He wanted to have sex. Don't have sex with him unless you are willing to just enjoy the sex without expecting more.
Ninjainpajamas Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 Really? him wanting to share a hotel room strikes you as overly friendly? He'll probably just want to lay on top of you...naked, just to keep you warm as well.. And he'll have sex with you just because he knows It'll give you a better nights rest... He's just that nice of a guy... Unless this guys a devout priest, In which this still wouldn't fly...I'm not sure how you can read this in any other way as a hopeful work fling on his part. There's a thin line between love and hate, what settles the tension from a prior feud like some naked wrestling? I'm sure he's still into you regardless, you underestimate the limits of who men will sleep with.
mtber75 Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 Really? him wanting to share a hotel room strikes you as overly friendly? He'll probably just want to lay on top of you...naked, just to keep you warm as well.. And he'll have sex with you just because he knows It'll give you a better nights rest... He's just that nice of a guy... Unless this guys a devout priest, In which this still wouldn't fly...I'm not sure how you can read this in any other way as a hopeful work fling on his part. There's a thin line between love and hate, what settles the tension from a prior feud like some naked wrestling? I'm sure he's still into you regardless, you underestimate the limits of who men will sleep with. Seriously you guys are perverts! IMO if you invite someone to a trip its courteous to split the lodging and everything else...Maybe that what he was getting at? Besides you guys are both grown adults, so its in your right to refuse or not! I don't see where he cross the line here?
Author Rabbit-foot Posted May 16, 2012 Author Posted May 16, 2012 Haha, on one hand, these replies are pushing me to the idea that he is attracted to me and wants to get with me. But like what mtber75 said, I keep thinking he might just be acting courteous. I think the relationship game is a bit different for artists than it it for non-artists. Art always comes before anything else. That's why I was wondering if he was really attracted to me or he was just trying to give me a way to network with all these professional artists.
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