digger Posted June 24, 2004 Posted June 24, 2004 Its Thursday the 24th. Tonight my wife and I and our lawyers have to meet to try to come up with a settlement. To fill you in--she filed for D on March 1st and has gone into this "i dont love you anymore mode" since THAT day and not a minute before. Then, in the same conversation Ill mention reconciling and she'll say, grufly. "I'll think about it". Its got me in knots as shes the love of my life and weve been married 20 years. The question is: Tonight I thot about asking to speak to her privately before proceedings and ask her if instead, she'll just agree to a legal separation to give us both time to think (mainly her). That way no assets can be spent, etc etc. Or, do I just walk in cooly, like its another day, that its no big deal and doesnt bother me..that I'm getting on with my life? How would you react given the circumstances?
moimeme Posted June 24, 2004 Posted June 24, 2004 Do you want to save your pride? Is it too big a sacrifice to make to lose a little one-upmanship in a last-ditch effort to save the marriage? If not, then go with your idea.
Athene Posted June 24, 2004 Posted June 24, 2004 Hi Digger, I have just read your post and have thought about what I would do. And personally speaking if there was any chance of saving a marriage I would definitely try and do my best to win my partner back. Asking for legal seperation would definitely by high on my agenda as well as trying anything else. But what ever you decide, I hope everything sorts it self out. Athene
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