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boyfriend or friend.... or both? teeny problem.


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I have a very small problem that i would like a little help with.

 

I have been with my bf for about a year and we have a very good relationship. There is one teeny weeny problem tho. I have been friends with a guy for about 4 years or so. we are quite close but i've never considered him more than a friend. hes just not my type.

 

My bf thinks he is competition and on occasions gets upset cos he thinks me n my friend r too close. We never hug or have any physical contact, our friendship just doesn't involve that. We don't call or email or anything either. Occasionally we use MSN but he never really goes on there. We also text one another like once every 3 months, usually for a good reason. like class work or something (we're all at the same college).

 

I just see him as friend and nothing else. and i love my bf. Soon i have an event happening. I dance and i'm performing. My bf was invited months ago, like in april but he still hasn't bothered to get a ticket. he says he doesn't know if hes free. I invited other friends of mine (girls and boys) including this one friend. My bf is unhappy about this. I don't know what to do, i really enjoy my friends company - obviously! thats why hes a friend. But i love my bf and i know he would be happier if i stopped being this other guys friend.

 

What should i do?

 

Thank you for ur time!

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Your boyfriend needs to get over it. Your relationship with this guy is an innocent friendship. It's normal for people to have friends of both sexes.

 

Your boyfriend needs to figure out why he's so jealous.

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