heartless2012 Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 So I`m trying to recover from this horrible exp. from this girl I was kind of seeing, which left me hurt real bad. While this is happening, I see this other girl I used to mess with, she just wanted to be fwb, but i wanted more, things ended badly and we stop talking. Well This new hurt got me thinking, that the feelings I had are for this other girl is gone. It has been a year, but every time we see each other we don`t talk and it`s just weird, still i catch her watching me as I walk by . I Think she wants to talk to me again, but she thinks my feelings are still hurt. I Want us to be cool again, even if we don`t chill, I want to let her know that i have no negtive feelings. The thing is rite now my self esteem is real low, I don`t think I could just go up and talk to her. What should I do, should I send a msg on fb or try getting a friend to talk to her or just leave it alone? I want to get my friend back
january2011 Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 Your self-esteem is low and you're still in pain. I wouldn't advise getting in contact again until you're much stronger and less needy.
turnera Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 If you are wanting to be just a friend with her, tell her so. Send a message "Hi, I see you from time to time and I miss our friendship. I don't have the nerve to just say hi to you, but I wanted you to know that I miss you." Leave it at that; if she wants to be friends again, you've given her the window.
taylorback Posted May 17, 2012 Posted May 17, 2012 You don't need her man. I say forget about it and work on making yourself happy in a more dependable way.
Author heartless2012 Posted May 17, 2012 Author Posted May 17, 2012 Yeah I think Im going to hold off for a bit, even at a friends level, I don't think I can handle a rejecting at this time. After thinking about it, I need to tell her that things are cool but not when Im still heart broken over someone else
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