5-F Dawg Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 Slowly but surely im starting to get over my ex…I’ve been talking to this new chick now for about a month. This girl I’ve known since 1st grade hit me up randomly one night….we really didn’t talk/keep in contact though mid/high school nor college really…. That night a buddy and I picked her up and went out on a cruise on our motorcycles…bad ass night got home around 4am…and she ended up texting me asking to hang out later that day…perfect.. Talk/hang all week….next weekend take out to dinner and to a bar to dance and have fun…ended up going back to her place and we ended up going all the way…I still don’t know how I feel about that…but whatever…. Next week same thing…we talk/hang out all week…that weekend ended up going out drinking with another couple watch a movie go back to my buddies house and spend the night together hook up and spend the whole day together the night afterwards…nice… This chick really likes to drink…like party with just a few friends and majority of her stories and topics she talks about involve her partying and what not…a few weeks go by me and her hang out have fun…blah blah blah usually when we hang out were not really that affectionate...but when we start to drink a lil bit things get a lot easier and we kiss touch and do whatever Yada yada yada leads us to this past week…. Wednesday..we take the motorcycle to watch the sunset…we go out to the mesa/volcanoes and take a lil hike…we watch the sunset/city light real romantic…I bitched out didn’t hold her hand while we were walking nor did I kiss her/cuddle with her…afterwards we go out to Starbucks and have an awesome time…no drinking…just a nice talk and I loved it…it was the real her! Take her home…and I only give her a hug…no kiss no nothing… Thursday night we go out crazy night have fun, are affectionate and really didn’t get home till like 5am and I went to work that next day at 8am…what a sucky day lol she texts me a lil here and there that day and asks to do something the following day…cool So the next day we hang out and go go-karting! What a blast! She even beat me haha! Afterwards we go grab a brew and some food, and instantly I become exhausted and tired…everything im saying is lame and dull and I immediately get all self-conscious and start to analyze what im saying and become even more lame that night….not my normal self…so I kinda freeze up and whatever Lucky for me her friend rolls by and brightens up the mood…we decided to go downtown and have more drinks…same thing I get all lame and make things worse by analyzing and think to my self what the hell am I doing….and im not really being fun…I kida think that im super tired. We moved to a different bar where she encounters some of her other girl friends and I encounter my buddy and his chick…we all hang out for a bit…but I kinda let her have her space with her friends and hang out with my buddy while at the bar…bad move? Idk her friends tell me that both me and her would be so cute together and all this and she tells them all that there like a month too late...good thing? i hope so Once the bars close, she, her friend, and me go to another party…her and her friend jump on board and take more shots, I stop drinking…someone at this party whips out maryjane and I decided to go outside with my buddy and have a cig…she took a couple hits of the weed, and while watching from outside I say what the heck! Lol… A few min later she comes outside to see what im up too…kind waiting for me to talk with her/ hold her/cuddle with her…I don’t and she says something to the fact…that being outside with us is lame and inside is more fun….she goes back in… A few min later she and I are both ready to go home…now were leaving and shes holding my arm while I walk her to my truck…she yells to her friend and asks her friend to take her home…me and her were all WTF! But she leaves me and rides with her girl friend home…not even really saying good bye to me Didn’t hear from her the rest of the night… Now the next morning (mothersday) she texts me saying the she cant believe what happened and that shes not drinking for a long time…making fun of her actions or whatever I reply saying that she makes me nervous when she gets like that and I didn’t like it…and asked her if she got home okay…she totally ignore my questions and changes the subject exchange a few texts me about this girl name “caca head” taking her mom out next weekend for mothers day…this “caca head” girl is her brothers ex finance and has really big issues …I text her and tell her that im sorry and that that sucks…I never heard from her the rest of the day… The following morning..(Monday) she texts me about problems at work that are being caused by “this caca head girl” yes they work at the same place…. yada yada yada…exchange a few msgs about the situation on how she has been dealing with everything well….blah blah blah im at work so I try to be slick and I reply to her saying “dang. Sounds rough…why don’t we meet up later, you can tell me all about it, make out, and ill give you some wonderful ideas. But im walking into a meeting right now.ill call you after work…sound good?” Well she never responded…whatever… I kept my word called her and left msg….i ended up taking a nap and woke up to her calling me…right as I answered the phone hung up (not sure if it was me or her or If she called me by mistake like a pocket dial)…call only lasted for a 1 sec…seriously….i waited for her to call me back…and she never did nor did i…and I fell asleep waiting….haha I waited all day for her to text/call me…well she never did….so here I am… Did I ruin things by being lame that night? Or not being affectionate enough? Am I In the Dreaded Friend Zone now? What do i do
Author 5-F Dawg Posted May 17, 2012 Author Posted May 17, 2012 okay sweet! so i waited 2 days...she didnt text/call me nor did i...so i texted her today and looks like were hanging out later tonight...well see... i figured i just need to be myself and relax..and not make it seem like its such a big deal to be hanging out with this chick...wish me luck yall and ill report back tonight
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