Mixed signals from a girl I'm dating

[lord_confused]

I've been seeing this girl for a little over a month around once a week, sometimes twice. I'm 24, she's 22.

 

We hang out at a recurring get together every 2 weeks (where we met) and we go on dates (movies, skating, what have you). After the 2nd date, I kissed her and she told me after that she hadn't really had a boyfriend or anything before so if she acted shy that was why. We scheduled another date for the Monday after (it was Saturday) and that went smooth - kissing still allowed, etc.

 

I got the first three dates relatively easily and just with texting between and she always seemed really interested while on the dates. Lately, though it has been really difficult to schedule a date with her. I finally got her to go out last Thursday to get gelato and play a game and we set a tentative movie date to replace the one she skipped on earlier in the week. Again, high interested level, kissing not a problem (she always smiles really wide after). But yesterday, for the second time, she didn't feel like going out since she housesitted for someone all weekend. She didn't suggest another date, but said that if she didn't see me before the end of the week, we see each other at the biweekly event we go to.

 

To Summarize:

She has no problem with physical contact - hand holding, etc. - and kissing, has high energy/interest level during dates and carries on conversations, keeps eye contact no problem as well. Only problem is, it is really hard to schedule a date with her. Aside from work, I know she's not that busy.

 

At this point, I really don't know if she's just shy from inexperience, not interested, mildly interested or what. Any ideas would be appreciated about how to approach this. Maybe not contact her till I see her there?

[dasein]

Would stop asking her out, see her as you say at the group thing only, with you being friendly and courteous, not acting weird around her. If she wants further dates, she will let it be known.