candicha2 Posted May 15, 2012 Posted May 15, 2012 I was so happy a couple weeks ago and now i am worried and sad. My boyfriend of one year is starting to say that he thinks we spend to much time together and that he is not ready to take that step that we both agreed on ,which is moving in together in a couple of months. We had a silly fight and this is what prompted his change of heart. After jut three months together we met each others families.We've talked about marriage kids and so on. I am 32 and he is 38 so as you see we are not young kids. I know what i want and i was under the impression he did to. Now it seems he is getting cold feet after we made so much promisses together and i think he is planning to break up with me soon. He doesnot have the guts to do it to my face. What shal I do? Am i wrong to be upset? should i understand that its just space he wants...
BewitchedandBothered Posted May 15, 2012 Posted May 15, 2012 I was so happy a couple weeks ago and now i am worried and sad. My boyfriend of one year is starting to say that he thinks we spend to much time together and that he is not ready to take that step that we both agreed on ,which is moving in together in a couple of months. We had a silly fight and this is what prompted his change of heart. After jut three months together we met each others families.We've talked about marriage kids and so on. I am 32 and he is 38 so as you see we are not young kids. I know what i want and i was under the impression he did to. Now it seems he is getting cold feet after we made so much promisses together and i think he is planning to break up with me soon. He doesnot have the guts to do it to my face. What shal I do? Am i wrong to be upset? should i understand that its just space he wants... If you know he will do this, save him the trouble and tell him you think it's not working and break it off. Anytime something starts off too much, too soon, it fizzles out later. Too much time together, meeting the parents early, etc. Break up with him before he does it to you.
Author candicha2 Posted May 16, 2012 Author Posted May 16, 2012 I know but its so hard.. I dont know how to do it... ... He is my best friend. I live far away from my family and he is all i have here. I dont mean to sound needy but i invested so much into this relationship and to just walk away like it meant nothing is tough...
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