Losttwo Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 When a girlfriend turns everything around,excepts no blame,pouts,gives silent treatment when mad,and when he points out something that is wrong and tells her about it along with a positive solution,and she always says...Well you do this,or you do that,never talks about the actual problem he tries to point out. What would you say the best definition of this person would be?
Tree_Salmon Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 She's poison. Let her go. It's the beginnings of the end.
Author Losttwo Posted May 14, 2012 Author Posted May 14, 2012 I've never dealt with anyone like this before. When things are good they are really good,but when there's a problem it doesn't get resolved and always get's blown out of proportion. I'm starting to read up on bi polar,borderline personality disorder,narcissist,and passive aggressive behavior.Not sure if any of these apply or maybe all of them do? I know she is extremely childish. She is 52 so she'll probably never change. I just recently broke nc with her after 2 1/2 weeks.I sent a text asking her if she missed me,she answered yes. The next day I texted her back saying I missed her too.The next day i texted her asking her if she wanted to see me,she said yes,that was on Friday. So I texted her back asking about seeing her over the weekend,she said no.So I told her what she had said,and her answer was,"that doesn't mean were going to be together".
Tree_Salmon Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 I'm telling you from experience...it's not a good thing. When they are on a high its the best relationship ever but as soon as she goes back to the negative state it becomes the worst ever. The only problem is it begins to mess with you and you start to become a bit crazy yourself. It ends with crazy unexpected situations like her cheating or randomly disappearing. It's not fun.
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