Mikochan98 Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 I met a guy about a year ago who I was really into, funny, smart, very good looking, exactly what I want in a guy, etc. But he was the ex of my good friend, so I felt uncomfortable about pursuing him too aggressively. (My friend said it was fine.) I flirted with him three or four different times, but he didn't give me the time of day, so I gave up. Around the same time, I met a different guy, and we clicked pretty well. We started hanging out more and more. Eventually, Guy A started paying more attention to me. He'd text me a lot and finally told me he liked me. But by then I'd been hanging out with Guy B for 2-3 months and I'd really fallen for him. I told Guy A I couldn't date him, as I was seeing someone else. Since then Guy A and I have hung out occasionally. I was still attracted to him, but I made it clear that I was very committed to my boyfriend. Guy A started flaking out on me... making plans and then backing out of them at the last minute. This made me sad, but I realized he was moving on since I was into my boyfriend, so I didn't say anything. About a month ago, my boyfriend dumped me. It's been really hard, but I'm trying to be strong. I've been wondering if I should contact Guy A and confess that I'm still attracted to him.... but I don't want to make him feel like a rebound. I'm thinking that I just blew my chances with him by choosing my old boyfriend, and that I just need to let it go. But if there's still a chance, I'd like to try. Should I confess my feelings, or should I just leave him alone?
Christine52 Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 If someone came back right after they broke up and wanted to date me, I'd feel like a) Choice #2 b) Rebound. Give it some time, and then try.
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