serial muse Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 OK, seriously now. Do any of you really believe that this video is actually representative of anything?? The whole thing is just so doofy; how is this a genuine jumping-off point for intelligent discussion, again? Someone's pulling my leg.
grkBoy Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 You must not know that many women then. Women hate to be alone. That's a fact. That's why a woman would rather be in a boring marriage than lonely. In Australia, for example, women are choosing to stay in unhappy marriages rather than being lonely: Australia: Older women urged to become lesbians Australia isn't the US. Plus I'll add I mainly know women aged 25-40. The ones who really want someone have found someone...and it's amazing in my own eyes how much they changed their "standards". When I first met these women it was all about hot tall athletic yuppies. Now they're married or dating "working class" average Joes. Most of the reason is they got burned too many times on the hot tall athletic yuppies. The ones I know who are single are holding hard to the "I'll never settle" ethos.
FitChick Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 I thought a true baseball fan would be thrilled to catch a ball if it came his way because it's a rare event, As to the original post, try treating women like crap and see where it gets you.
WonderKid Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 LLOLL Well, from personal experiences if you treat them like nothing they will chase you to the ends of the Earth. I think it's because they think good guys are boring and non aggressive. I'm not one of those I am sort of in a league of my own. If I see a doesn't jump at being treated like a lady and like a woman, I don't bother. Hey, that's her love life in the future. It is just funny when they get 30 yrs old, the "I'm tired of games" motto comes in. LoL I was recently just with a younger girl. She noticed my good guy qualities. I am a guy who doesn't want to piss his life away. I go to school and everything. She's not into that I guess. She ended up dating another guy all because he smokes weed, has no job and talks to women like nothing, has a limited vocabulary. She went with him and he served her a slider. She texts me crying one day. "...You are actually the only real bf I ever had. I can't believe I let you go but I know its too late though..." Pretty much yeah. Just learn to pass'em by. Some of those girls honestly get tired of being treated like nothing, but hey, you could be that one to catch her in that state.
mortensorchid Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 Well that's not a true example of a Bad Boy. One might say that they would catch the ball if it came their way, but reactions are reactions. That is a shame this was caught on tape and that it's gone viral like this, because that guy looks like a big jerk for doing what he did. But still, I wonder how someone would react if a ball was flying at them, either they would dodge out of the way or take a dive for it. I think I would dodge away for fear it would hit me, which it did to that gal. But the Beiber clip and Tom Cruise thing was still funny.
Oxy Moronovich Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 Australia isn't the US. Plus I'll add I mainly know women aged 25-40. The ones who really want someone have found someone...and it's amazing in my own eyes how much they changed their "standards". When I first met these women it was all about hot tall athletic yuppies. Now they're married or dating "working class" average Joes. Most of the reason is they got burned too many times on the hot tall athletic yuppies. The ones I know who are single are holding hard to the "I'll never settle" ethos. I never said Australia was the U.S. But women are the same all over. My point is no woman likes to be lonely. Any woman who says she likes to be lonely is a truly rare breed (like one in a billion) or she's an outright liar. The ones who say "I'll never settle" will end up settling for cats or dogs to supplant their lack of successful human relationships. Either that or they'll let some dude knock them up, have his kid, and then use their love for their kid as a replacement for a relationship.
Pyro Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 I thought a true baseball fan would be thrilled to catch a ball if it came his way because it's a rare event, As to the original post, try treating women like crap and see where it gets you. apparently he is not a true fan. I've been going to games regularly for almost 20 years and I am still waiting for my first foul ball. Why do you think some guys are here?
threebyfate Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 This is one of those global warming = bad boys threads...
FrustratedStandards Posted May 15, 2012 Posted May 15, 2012 Huh? What? Your thread makes no sense. First of all, a baseball cap doesn't make a guy a "bad boy" and I have no idea where you got that implication. Second of all, being a gentleman has nothing to do with being a doormat. Where did you even get this idea?
udolipixie Posted May 15, 2012 Posted May 15, 2012 To me this isn't an example of gals being to bad guys as I wouldn't define the guy as one and even if he was it'd be an example of a gal being into bad guys. Her having a vagina doesn't mean her actions, tastes, and prefernces speak for all, most, or in general for who have a vagina. To me this isn't an example of a bad guy attraction though to many it may be just as to many if the guy did the gentlemanly thing he may be considered a doormat or a gentleman depending on their mindset. Some gals don't consider it being treated like crap if a a guy laughs if she gets hurt rather than run over to help her up depending on the severity or likelihood of medical attention. Some gals are into bad guys, some gals are into nice guys, and some gals are into a mix. Using an example of a gal being into whatever type and applying that as speaking for gals in general without statistics, studies, surveys, and polls to back it up seems to me a bit reality bending with an agenda. Though it is interesting how far it seems some guys are going to label guys with gals as bad guys.
grkBoy Posted May 15, 2012 Posted May 15, 2012 I never said Australia was the U.S. But women are the same all over. My point is no woman likes to be lonely. Any woman who says she likes to be lonely is a truly rare breed (like one in a billion) or she's an outright liar. The ones who say "I'll never settle" will end up settling for cats or dogs to supplant their lack of successful human relationships. Either that or they'll let some dude knock them up, have his kid, and then use their love for their kid as a replacement for a relationship. I agree with you there. Many of these "I'll never settle!" women will show a strong front, but occasionally you'll see the cracks when they lament on how much they want a boyfriend.
ascendotum Posted May 15, 2012 Posted May 15, 2012 ...Either that or they'll let some dude knock them up, have his kid, and then use their love for their kid as a replacement for a relationship. I know of a couple of relationships like that. there's no affection except towards the precious child...wife/gf reminds me of the dentist's wife/gf in 'The Hangover'. Such relationships should be like a lighthouse to some of the single 30something guys not to be so desperate for any woman & single life aint so bad.
joystickd Posted May 15, 2012 Posted May 15, 2012 Both men and women like bad boys and girls. I will admit it, when I was younger I was with some women I had no business being with. I was just having fun though. It was clear to both of us there wasnt any need to get serious in those situations. There is a difference in this though. Men get held accounatble for thier mistakes and poor chices, and women dont. When men screw up there is nobody to blame. When women screw up they blame men. Women can make the worst choices in men over and over again, ruin thier lives, and pop out multiple children with different fathers. In the end society will always blame the men in fear of degrading what is seen as the weaker sex. Wome want what they want when they want it. And because they will never feel the shame they should they know they can make alot of mistakes and still always look like the hero. So they can date losers and bad boys because they never get held accountable. This is something I can partially agree with
Author irc333 Posted May 15, 2012 Author Posted May 15, 2012 This is something I can partially agree with I actually had seen a professional matchmaker in my area post: "A woman needs to date a couple of jerks, before dating a nice guy" Not sure fo the exact words, but it was along those lines. I laughed at her post, she said "Bring it on!" but I decided not to post my diatribe about "Yeah, they marry and divorce twice, guy gives them black eyes,and such, pop out 3 kids, and THEN want the nice guy?"
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