kandi13 Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 Ok well 3 days ago I met this kid named Steven. Steven asked me out and I said yeah, not knowing he had an obsessive ex that would just bout kill for him. She is harassing me left and right, he is such a sweetheart though, I mean i didnt think he was worth all the trouble til last night when he slept over my friends house with me. He respects me, well he wanted to do stuff anf he tried to push me into it, BUT he knew when to stop, and I really like that bout him! I mean im not ready for sex, im only 14 years old I use to think I was but not no more! Well im so afraid of fallin in 2 deep with him and get hurt. But he promised me he never broke up with girls he hates it, that he lets the gurl break up with him! But I dunno. I asked him what he would do if a girl cheated on him would he dump her, and he said no he'd tell the gurl its either him or the guy. I mean i dunno, I really like him. I just hope he dont hurt me. Which I highly dout he will but....theres always chances wut should I do? He also told me he likes me and wont make me have sex he doesnt care if we do it at all...all that matters is that he likes me....
cinnamonstix49 Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 Kandi- You haven't known this guy for very long, it may seem like he is perfect now, but everyone has thier faults... keep that in mind. You are still very young and young guys aren't the smartest when it comes to relationships ((no offence to anyone)) so sometimes you just have to overlook their little mistakes, especially if they slip up and say something a little wrong. The obsessive ex girlfriend part kind of scares me though because you are so young. If she is threatening you physically, maybe you should let her have him before you do get in too deep, there is no sense in letting yourself get hurt physically over him. Give him a chance, maybe you need some more time to be friends before you jump into anything too big.
CurlyIam Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 wait, I don't understand! You've been dating Steven for ... 3 days and he slept with you in at friend's house? I remember my teens, I had hormones running wild too you know, but this is not right, girl! I hope I misunderstood!
Author kandi13 Posted June 23, 2004 Author Posted June 23, 2004 no way!!! I respect myself more then to have sex with a guy I knew 3 days! he wanted me too but I pushes away and he respected me and left it at that...
CurlyIam Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 not slept as in had sex, but as in...you know... gone further than a kiss! Take your time and enjoy the ride! There's no rush to get there! Remember that you can do it whenever you feellike, but try that at least the first time to makeit special and do it with a guy you really love! It makes all the differance in the world, believe me!
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