lovers Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 i went on this online dating thing and posted a pic of someone thats not me. im talking to this chick and i really like her and we got really really really close. she lives in the sane area to. she thinks im really cool and has feelings for me a bit and wants to meet me but i cant cause thats not me. i look nothing like that guy im just average and she would prob never talk to me. i feel like confessing or just stop talking to her. it was just for fun at first.bwat to do?
Buck Turgidson Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 That'll learn ya to be dishonest in relationships. One good lie will lose you everything, won't it. Luckily you only lied about what you look like, right? That is possibly fixable. Your only hope is to fess up right away, like today. Fess up and send her your real picture. Then be ready to never hear from her again. But maybe you will. It's possible.
Author lovers Posted May 14, 2012 Author Posted May 14, 2012 yeah and my ethnic background but everyting else is true.i sould send her a pic but scared i might see her on campus or orgs which would make t really really awkward
Buck Turgidson Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 Grow a pair and do it today. Maybe it will be awkward, but that would be your fault, now wouldn't it. That's part of your penance. Now get back on the site and write her that message. Do it now.
Own Worst Enemy Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 the guy told me he was a doctor and that my friend whose mother was dying of cancer should call him, as he might have some ideas on new drugs. he sent me a pic, but claimed not to have any more, as he was "camera shy". then his sister got hit by a drunk driver and was put into a coma. he mailed me dozens of updates and thanks for my support. yeeeeah....... so after a week or two, i got suspicios. sure enough, he had no sister, was a mobile phone salesman, and had a fiancee. he then turned up at my office with flowers, even though we'd never met. the sad thing was, if he had been honest, and ended it with his fiancee FIRST, i would have been interested anyway, as he was enough as he was. he just thought he had to be more special, so he made it up. what a cock. don't be that guy. tell her the truth, and see what she says. it's not a relationship until you do, it's a fantasy.
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