viktorious11 Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 Just wanted to recap a few things I've learned as well as update you all. So, I think the only way truly get past the hurt is to: #1 do whatever you can to try and rectify the situation, but know when to just end the fight and move on. That way, I'm moving on with my life, but I know that I did all I could to save my marriage. #2, it takes 2 to make it work. If one person 100% wants out- give it up. Your efforts are futile! #3 Do everything in your power to regain self confidence! Once you get those first few randoms compliments it can do wonders to your ego and outlook! #4 Accept and move on. I still have to see her for the next 18 years at least! Why not just accept that she's happy w/ somebody else, and accept that she was not meant to be with me. End of story. I'm sure the pain will come and go like a rollercoaster- but thats life. Like Butters realizes in South Park after getting dumped- It's that deep, meaningful pain we endure that allows us to feel the real joys in life. Cheers to all that helped me get through this! I know it's far from over, but I feel that atleast mentally I have overcome the first giant roadblock!
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