The Kid A Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 I've been dating this girl for about 4 months now. We've had some ups and downs. Mostly just miscommunication. I knew her ex-boyfriend had been calling her, but I never said anything because I didn't feel like it was my place to. However, recently they went out to dinner. She told me beforehand that they were going and that they were not getting back together, and I said it was okay. The next afternoon we talked. I told her I was okay with her going to dinner with her ex, but I was not comfortable with it. She gave me a little more insight into their relationship. I let her know that I knew he called her (I saw his name when his phone rang), and told her "For there to be an 'us,' I'm asking you not to see him anymore. And I can't ask you this, but I'm letting you know that I don't want you to talk to him on the phone. He's trying to win you back, and I think it's just going to make things harder." She agreed fairly amicably, and said that she would not. Later we talked about some of our miscommunications, and I told her that she hurt me, but I was putting that behind us, and wanted to move forward, but was also a little nervous about her cutting me off again, to which she replied, "I'm not going anywhere." So, is she telling me it's time?
baguette Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 4 months is in the range, I'd say. But only you can tell if you think that's what she wants too.
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