bio Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 It took me awhile to get here (1 month of NC). He said the expectations were to high the after our 1 year of meeting each other. He said he wanted to be friends. I said I couldnt. It took me 4 months to be able to achieve this first month of no contact. I dont wake up every morning thinking of him, I dont cry for hours anymore, but it still hurts. I have come up with a list of why to never go back. The thing is he is never coming back. So why do I need this list. I guess it comforts me. It make me strong. So on my way to healing. I hope the best for all those who share my pain.
Coffee20 Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 (edited) It took me awhile to get here (1 month of NC). He said the expectations were to high the after our 1 year of meeting each other. He said he wanted to be friends. I said I couldnt. It took me 4 months to be able to achieve this first month of no contact. I dont wake up every morning thinking of him, I dont cry for hours anymore, but it still hurts. I have come up with a list of why to never go back. The thing is he is never coming back. So why do I need this list. I guess it comforts me. It make me strong. So on my way to healing. I hope the best for all those who share my pain. good to hear that you have come so far , I achieved only the 6th day of NC, I would have almost one month but I broke it almost two weeks ago. I hope you will feel good soon, I think the pain will just go away soon or I pray for it Edited May 13, 2012 by Coffee20
Numb777 Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 I really hope this horrible feeling doesnt last 4 months for me, dont know how I would handle that.. All the best!
Tree_Salmon Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 This is my third week and I am light years ahead of where I was the first. I still love this person, but I'm starting to remember why I left and why it cant work right now, or possibly ever. It's important to remember this. Getting yourself back is the best part. I could barely spend any time alone at my place because I was constantly thinking about the relationship. I can't wait for the end of the 2nd month. I need to be 150% again
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