Mme. Chaucer Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 But if it helps you to think of me as a chick, go for it. . At least you won't have to worry about him coming on to you, since he evidently really doesn't like "chicks" anyway.
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 It's this type of bitchy behavior that drives men more to porn and prostitution. Men who are "driven" to porn and prostitution by being turned down by non professionals - even if the non-pros are "bitches" - are probably best sticking with the porn and prostitutes. The women who are looking for good dates, fun sex and / or relationships won't be missing a thing.
Oxy Moronovich Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 No. No bias. Read Woggle's threads if you want proof. I don't stick up for women on the internet trying to get laid. I don't stick up for women really at all. I just don't like the mentality of the self-appointed male "victims" that crawl all over this site. If anyone should have problems with women, I fit the bill. I don't have problems. I think guys should avoid whining whenever possible, or at least show some stoicism. Toughen up. Quit blaming the world for their own attitude problems. The original poster has a right to get irritated if she feels harassed. It's her right. Guys often lack tact. I've seen it. I've done it. Yeah, I call BS that you don't have bias. I've seen your posts. You jump at guys like Woggle and dasein when they say negative things about women. But you're surprisingly absent when Disenchantedly Yours and verzhn say negative things about men. The OP was crying about men approaching her period. Pretty soon she's going to whining about guys don't approach her as she passes the age of 30.
johan Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 Yeah, I call BS that you don't have bias. I've seen your posts. You jump at guys like Woggle and dasein when they say negative things about women. But you're surprisingly absent when Disenchantedly Yours and verzhn say negative things about men. The OP was crying about men approaching her period. Pretty soon she's going to whining about guys don't approach her as she passes the age of 30. Call BS if you want. I stated my position, and it's the truth. I don't always agree with him, but I think I'm fair with Woggle. I know where he's coming from, and I can empathize to an extent with his suffering as a kid growing up with a mother who is obviously off balance. I don't see the feminist conspiracy he sees. Not many people actually buy into that, even if they do see the injustices that men suffer. They know that things are unfair for women in some ways, too. I imagine that's an additional source of frustration for you, to know that your heartfelt ideas are generally rejected. As far as dasein goes, I don't recall ever starting anything with him. He always comes to me. You seem to be describing what you hope will happen to the OP. Another spiteful shot at someone you disapprove of. If she's having trouble dealing with guys who approach her and persist and make her feel uncomfortable, maybe she should send them your way so they can learn to despise her outright. Problem solved. She can probably deal with unexpressed hostility better than fake niceness. 1
Stellar Wench Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 been as nice as I can be but guys aren't taking the hint. its getting on my nerves now! a guy wants a minute of my time. I be nice and give it to him. he wants to know if I gotta man. I tell him no and that I just got out of a relationship and dont wanna be dating right now. he thinks he can change my mind. I tell him you cant. He doesnt get it! other guys stop me in the street to ask for the time? seriously? I mean I'm not stupid. everyone has cell phones! they just wanna break the ice with me to get something going. no no no! whats with these lame guys using excuses to bother me? I much prefer a man that steps to me like a man and tells me his wants. at least its more honest. but I'm getting mostly guys hiding what they want. its pissing me off and I used to be nice about it before but now I'm ready to explode! Don't dip your toe in the dating pool if you aren't ready for a swim. You may benefit from a different dating pool altogether.
Woggle Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 The only issue I have is the way some women say men shouldn't approach and then in another thread the same women complain that men are too afraid to approach. Be consistent about it at least. 2
Christine52 Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 Why are you angry about this? I think you're making a problem out of nothing...If you were truly upset about it, you'd start wearing a wedding ring.
Christine52 Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 The only issue I have is the way some women say men shouldn't approach and then in another thread the same women complain that men are too afraid to approach. Be consistent about it at least. It's always a gamble, and always worth the risk Don't listen to what women say, so long as you're not desperate, clingy, needy and can't take no for an answer, I say it's worth the shot.
WonderKid Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 Yeah, I call BS that you don't have bias. I've seen your posts. You jump at guys like Woggle and dasein when they say negative things about women. But you're surprisingly absent when Disenchantedly Yours and verzhn say negative things about men. The OP was crying about men approaching her period. Pretty soon she's going to whining about guys don't approach her as she passes the age of 30. ^^^ That's the double truth Ruth!
Tommyboy129 Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 You are really impatient with people and that might hurt you later (a guy who you like and who likes you but sees you are impatient may pass). Anyway, you are right in that those men are not very masculine in their approaches and are probably inexperienced.
6ft180natl Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 Wait I'm confused did a man start this thread complaining about women who tell them they are not interested? lol
Author rana-rana Posted May 19, 2012 Author Posted May 19, 2012 Deal with it. Until we live in a world where the majority of women do the approaching this is the way it is. While you are not ready and complaining about this there are other women complaining that men are not men anymore because they don't approach women. Should they listen to you and not approach women or listen to those other women and approach women more? Also when you feel like you are ready to date or whatever if all of a sudden all men took the hint and never approached anymore you would likely not like that either. never said dont wanna be approached at all I said I dont like guys coming up to me without clear intentions when we both know why they came up to me. just yesterday after school this older guy probably in his 30s or something came up to me & pretended to be lost. I was nice anyway & pointed him the directions he needed but then he asked if I could show him the bus to get to so & so. I told him what street to catch the bus this guy wasnt taking the hint so then he asked me if I could just walk him to the bus stop since its across the street or whatever. I told him no I cant do that & I'm pretty busy right now which I was with texting but he got annoyed and told me I wasnt so busy before he came over & Im just not giving him a chance. I'm like huh? this is what I mean ok because this guy wanted more from me and that being lost story was lame. I knew it but I still didnt go bitchy on him did I?
NYC-BigKat Posted May 19, 2012 Posted May 19, 2012 never said dont wanna be approached at all I said I dont like guys coming up to me without clear intentions when we both know why they came up to me. just yesterday after school this older guy probably in his 30s or something came up to me & pretended to be lost. I was nice anyway & pointed him the directions he needed but then he asked if I could show him the bus to get to so & so. I told him what street to catch the bus this guy wasnt taking the hint so then he asked me if I could just walk him to the bus stop since its across the street or whatever. I told him no I cant do that & I'm pretty busy right now which I was with texting but he got annoyed and told me I wasnt so busy before he came over & Im just not giving him a chance. I'm like huh? this is what I mean ok because this guy wanted more from me and that being lost story was lame. I knew it but I still didnt go bitchy on him did I? I'm happy that u was nice to him. I never really waste a girl's time if I do like her. I try to tell her. I'm a very honest guy & usually a girl knows that I like her just by looking at my face lol. Anyhow what kinda guys are u into by the way?? Do u like nice guys or bad boys?
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