WisconsinWonder Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 So I went paintballing with his friend and his girlfriend. The 4 of us went for dinner and then my date suggested we go to the cinema. All in all it was an 11 hour date. He was talking about seeing me again and stuff. He text me on tuesday to say he had fun and I replied and got nothing back. I take it this is over with?!
Radu Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 Yeah ... most likely it is over with. Off-course there is a small posibility something has happened, but it's more probable that he hasn't bothered telling you it's over. Sorry ... next ?
Author WisconsinWonder Posted May 13, 2012 Author Posted May 13, 2012 Ah I liked him too. What do guys say that they want to meet you again during a date and then nothing?
d'Arthez Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 To let you down easily for them. Who cares about the expectations they create in others?
Author WisconsinWonder Posted May 13, 2012 Author Posted May 13, 2012 I don't know - he spent 11 hours with you on your last date and seemed to enjoy himself. I don't think a guy will spend almost half a day with a woman he's not interested in. Texting is LAME. It's fun if you just want to reach out to someone and say good morning or let them know you're thinking about them, but don't make the mistake of using it as your ONLY form of communication. As with anything electronic, texts can fail to make it to their intended target - I know, because it's happened to me numerous times over the years. Stop relying on a TEXT you sent 4 days ago and give the guy a call like people used to do in the ancient days. For all you know, he never GOT the text 4 days ago and has been wondering why you're not interested in HIM after such a long and enjoyable date. Give him a call - if it goes to voicemail and he doesn't return your call, then it's obvious he has lost interest for whatever reason. But there's also the chance he may call back and is still interested and you can move on from there. Never rely on lame texts. Really? I don't want to seem like a stalker
Author WisconsinWonder Posted May 13, 2012 Author Posted May 13, 2012 I've resigned myself to the fact that he's not going to call. Just feel like an idiot for liking him!
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