Fractious Fran Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 Due to alopecia, I wear wigs. The wigs are all natural-looking and if I didn't reveal it, no one would ever know. Therein lies the problem. I'm just thinking about getting back into the dating scene after having been married for 20 years, and now divorcing. I don't think it's necessary to reveal that the hair on my head is not growing out of my scalp on a first date. But, when's the right time? When things look like they're turning physical? Second date? And, how much of a turn-off would that be for a guy? I'm very pretty, well-educated and generally a nice woman. I'm thinking about becoming a dating hermit because I just don't know what to do about this wig thing. Help!
Radu Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 Don't become a dating hermit over this. Would the wig survive being attached to your scalp during sex ? If it does, you can wait untill just before or after a few times [lights out].
Author Fractious Fran Posted May 13, 2012 Author Posted May 13, 2012 Thank you, Radu. Yeah, I can pin it on very securely. Still wondering how men feel about the issue in general.
Star Gazer Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 Kim Zolciak landed a very attractive man, and she's wig obsessed. She started wearing them because of some sort of condition or treatment or something that made her hair fall out and/or be very thin. She's recovered, and her hair is back... but she still wears them.
gaius Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 I don't think it's a big deal, especially since it looks natural and stays on for sex. This coming from a guy who has a thing for hair!
carhill Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 No need to say anything. Redhead one date, brunette the next. Nothing like a little mystery At my age, women rarely have 'natural' hair. A wig is just a further extension of that. Non-issue for me. The lady's love and humanity? Big issue.
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