Hasan Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 hello I guess ill start from the beginning i was in a relationship with this girl for a little over a year i was thier for her through the worst her dad kicking thier parents out of thier house helping them find a place to live getting her back in school helping her stop drinking as much as she the list goes on and on. Im not going to say are relationship was all peachs and cream but for the most part i thought everything was going great. ill start with the first problem we had through the relationship which was i found out she was sexting a forming friend/****ing buddy we got into a big agrument about it and she said it would stop but then it happened again but here excuse was it was him texting her she not texting the same way back i was just about done with it. She promised me no more and to give her one more chance i did care for this girl alot so i gave her one more chance everything was going fine 3 months went by no problems besides her consist bi polar problems were shes happy one min and mad the next i never understood it put just accepted it because no bodys perfect. like i said not every thing was peachs and cream but was better then having to worry about the texting but then her birthday comes around took she wanted to go to the club on her birthday so us and sister, sisters bf, and her bff. Everything started off fine she had a couple drinks in her but not were she was really drunk i had to go use the rest room told her i would be back not even 5min i come back shes dancing with another guy i was furious she acted like it was np we got into an argument at the club and she started crying her bff told me i have everyright to be mad but just drop in for tonight and let her have it tomorrow so i put on a fake smile and forgave her. The next day i told her i was still mad about it she said so you lied i thought you forgave me i told her i just didnt want to look like the bad guy ruining your birthday i just sucked it up. She would always tell me if thiers no trust in a relationship thiers nothing so i just dropped it. but here is were everything started to change the week after that she told me that her friends invited her out to a sox game for free i told her ok sounds like fun. Normally we are always together on the week ends but that weekend it felt like she was trying to avoid me everything changed after the day she went to that sox game texts were different she started call me and text me by my name instead of babe even when we hang up no more i love you nothing i knew something was wrong. So i had to get to the bottem of this so the weekend after that we went to go eat and talk we started talking about whats been going on and i asked her do you want to break up or something what did i do she couldnt even give me an answer she couldnt even look at me. Her words were yes i do want to break up but then i dont i think we should take some time alone. I told here no either we stay together or we break up thiers no in between. So i see she couldnt give me a answer so i made the descion my self i told her fine we are done i drove her home but then she started crying saying give her an hour to think about it she wanted to talk to to her bff about so said ok she said she will come by my place to talk to me. i went home 2 hours went by nothing after i knew it i fell asleep to wake up to her sister calling me asking do i know were she is i told her i have no idea ive been waiting for her to call me back. Next day comes around she calls apologizing about last night and that she would give me an answer today so i go to pick her up for work because we both work together in this factory im a part time supervisor and shes a hourly worker who works in a different area. I pick her up she starts acting like nothing wrong like last night never happened we get to work i ask so what you nothing to say not one thing she said not right now ill tell you when we get out of work i told her im serious im tired of this playing around i need to know today because we had a vacation set up for the upcoming weekend and i want to know if i should cancel it or not alot of money was put into that. I go to work i start talking to one for my good friends telling him something doesnt seem right i dont get it luckly my friend can see right through her and told me to go check out her phone i told him i cant be that he told me she did it twice why wouldnt she do it again. So i went to my car and looked through the phone nothing looked out of place until i noticed thier was texts to her friend under two of the same names just different last letters. shes been cheating on me for about 3 weeks i call up her bff asking her i thought you told me those two were done talking she said i swear they dont talk anymore r you sure its him she asked whats the number i gave it to her then the phone went silent i asked who it was she said it was her bf a full time supervisor that works in my girlfriends area. I know im making this story longer then it should be but i cant really explain unless i start from the top but let me just shorten it up arguments were had friendships were lost. lies after lies were told to me when we broke up i asked so what are you dating this guy now she said no even after the break up she couldnt even be honest with me if your going dont go posting your in a relationship on facebook. I just dont understand ive been thier for this girl through the toughest times even her dad going to prison her mom kicking her out of her house ive been nothing but generous and she moves on like nothing ever happened no guilt nothing. what im trying to say i miss her and i just cant get over it its driving me crazy what did i do to deserve this.
flitzanu Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 um, what? from what i can understand from the giant block of text (i'd recommend splitting it up a bit to make it readable) she talked to another guy, then danced with a guy, then was talking to a guy? where does the cheating come into play? or you're assuming and accusing her of cheating just because she texted some dude? 1
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