water4150 Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 (edited) Does she like me? So there’s this girl in my university, we have the sameclasses/degree. And since final came around we been talking a lot more. We werefriends last semester but really didn’t talk much but we started to talk morethis semester During the week before finals we spent so much time together in the library.Probably around 12hrs studying and talking etc. So long story short, here aresome of her actions… I heard her call me boo, but in a soft quick voice If I do something silly, she would say “your so cute We’re always sitting next to eac hother and not across She has physical contact with me such as rubbing my backor poking me if she walks right by me or if she feels like it One day when it was raining and we went for a walk, weshared an umbrella and she hooked her arm around mine and we would jump puddlesand stuff In the library we were joking with a friend and she saidsomething that bothered me so I walked out of the building. After quiet sometime, she went to go get me and knew I was a little upset. This also made herfeel upset knowing that she made me angry. And she was very apologetic and washard on herself. It wasn’t anything drastic or serious Another day, we went for a long walk off campus (2miles?)and we talked about our past. She got teary in our convo and still kept going. When we got back everything was all fine and weeven had a tiny tickle fight in the library….she started it She offered to pay for dinner (she knows I’m very low onmoney b/c my job has not been giving me hours). And she even offered to driveto come pick me up if we were ever to go to the beach. (I am trying to find newjobs and supposed to pick up extra hours, I’m not lazy or anything…we are nursing majors My facebook is filled with back and forth comments She blew me a kiss when we were goofing around Are these strong enough clues? What do I do next. We haveour actuall test this week and on wedsnay our friends and us are supposed to goto some bar to celebrate end of semester…I want to make a move but I’m hesitantsince my trusting level is a bit low thanks to the damage from my ex…Help Edited May 13, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator reformatted
matte123 Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 Does she do this to her other male friends? If not, I think she might be interested in you.
dasein Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 All that is noise, could indicate sexual interest... or not. The measure of interest is her acceptance of date invitations and enthusiastic continuing response to your physical advances. Move towards those two things and those only when you are interested in a girl. Good luck.
WhiteChocolate Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 Try asking her on a date at the bar? Maybe kiss her too. And find a way to confront your trust issues. It's difficult to start a new relationship when you are still hung up on an old one.
Radu Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 Untill you two go out on a date, you'll never know if it is sincere sexual interest.
Kamila Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 Or you could be more subtle: Try talking about her hobbies, her family, her likes and dislikes. And then while flirting, how come she's single (if she is...). Or anything that's appropriate. It's true that you should also deal with your trust issues concerning the ex. But remember that every relationship is different, and that love comes with pain. But good pain. Good luck.
Author water4150 Posted May 13, 2012 Author Posted May 13, 2012 (edited) Hmm interesting...This wedesnday willl be our "date" but we'll be with our group of friends. And no, she does not do that with her other guy friends. She brought up stuff saying yea we need to go to the beach. We did have a long walk off campus and it started out by me telling her "alright i gotta stretch my legs and going for a quick walk" she said "would you like some company on your walk" And then what I was expecting to be a 5 min quick walk for a break from studying...turned into a 1hr "date" or something.. Edited May 13, 2012 by water4150
Author water4150 Posted May 13, 2012 Author Posted May 13, 2012 We already know quiet a lot about each other, even though there is still more to discover. We have been talking for quiet some time on a friendly bases. I was helping her through her bf drama and when her drama settled down, then we really starrted talking. I'm 7monts past my break up and I never dealth with another girl b/c I didn't want to get into a rebound relationship. I did have rebound crushes but they never went any where. But I know I really do have actual feelings for her since they are completely different from the rebound crushes. I am trying to work on my trust issue and when we went for that long ass walk...which was kinda like a date...we told each other some deep personal stuff that we wouldn't tell anybody
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