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When guys comment on how other guys talk to you...?


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are they jealous? Trying to let you know they want to be the one talking to you?

 

This guy I know tends to do this. He'll be like oh you got all the guys talking to you now. _____ has been talking to you a lot lately. you have been flirting with ____. He knows I don't like them.. or is he testing me? He'll tease me about other guys.

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Sounds like someone with control freak tendencies. Better to avoid getting closer to him.

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I have a female friend I do this with. I don't think I'm jealous? She isn't my type and I've never wanted to date her. It just seems like an interesting thing to talk about, and flatter her a little bit at the same time. Hey look, you got all these guys flirting with you!

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are they jealous? Trying to let you know they want to be the one talking to you?

 

This guy I know tends to do this. He'll be like oh you got all the guys talking to you now. _____ has been talking to you a lot lately. you have been flirting with ____. He knows I don't like them.. or is he testing me? He'll tease me about other guys.

 

Do you want to date these guys who are flirting with you?

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No. and he knows that. I want to date the guy who is commenting on how all these other guys talk to me! It's not controlling, it's more in a teasing manner.

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And they may not necessarily be flirting with me. Like this guy last night I was just TALKING to and my crush was like "oh well you just every guy talking to you lol."

 

he knows there is nothing there between this guy and me...

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Which begs the question: why don't either of you (wo)man up?

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No. and he knows that. I want to date the guy who is commenting on how all these other guys talk to me! It's not controlling, it's more in a teasing manner.

 

Then why are you letting men you have no interest in dating flirt with you?

 

I personally won't bother trying to date a woman who enjoys the attention of many men she isn't interested in romantically.

 

Unless she makes a move I can only assume she wants to add me to her stable of ego-feeders.

 

although I also wouldn't waste my time pointing out all the men flirting with her.

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It's not like I flirt back with them, I ignore them, avoid them. And Idk.. I am scared to lol

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are they jealous? Trying to let you know they want to be the one talking to you?

 

This guy I know tends to do this. He'll be like oh you got all the guys talking to you now. _____ has been talking to you a lot lately. you have been flirting with ____. He knows I don't like them.. or is he testing me? He'll tease me about other guys.

Not everything a man does needs to be analyzed. He could just be making conversation.

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i know haha. But he does it a lot. I think he may like me but sometimes I am not sure since he hasn't asked me out yet.

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