Hereiam007 Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 Yes. 2 years this June. We broke up like every 2 - 3 weeks. After the first 6 months. She said I was her soulmate, and we planned anythings for the future. Se was married 3 xs, with children from each guy. I guess I ever saw the red flags, I just fall for sob stories from her. I changed my number, and she found me on Facebook. We are off right now because she is sexting with friends. I just cat see red flas and my self worth seems low. I just need to cope .
Clarky Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 There was a billion and one red flags but I choose to ignore them because I thought it would get better, and despite everything all I wanted was us to be loved up again. 3 months in is when major flags came up and I should have left her. I think we hang on because of the perfect relationship we get in the beginning and we think we can get it back. Sometimes we just don't wanna give up on people even thou it's the best thing to do.
ladyabstrused Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 I just ended a 4.5-year relationship. So many red flags that I missed, denied or skipped. Should have kept it to friendship level, what the hell was I thinking. We both are just so different on so many levels it's beyond dysfunctional. Should have done so many things..but didn't. Why does love have to hurt though...at times.
Author CopingGal Posted May 22, 2012 Author Posted May 22, 2012 In my case she shafted me twice, but it's very similar, she did promise and plead, and for a while...aww f it. Long story short, got my heart ripped out, you know how it goes, and yes, I concur, I should have never taken her back either. But believe me, I am trying to shake this evil witch the best that I can. Mine begged and cried and said he would make it up to me. He lead me to believe things would be different. Why? Why do they beg and plead only to cheat when we take them back and treat us even worse than before?
Author CopingGal Posted May 22, 2012 Author Posted May 22, 2012 everything you said is what i'm feeling right now.. 3 years, lies, cheating, and very recent :( not pleasant Sorry you are going through this.
ToyWithMe812 Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 Mine begged and cried and said he would make it up to me. He lead me to believe things would be different. Why? Why do they beg and plead only to cheat when we take them back and treat us even worse than before? Maybe it makes them feel good to know that you will. Believe me, never had a clue that it would turn out like this when I did agree to work things out, but here it is.
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