Els Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 She can get the same kind of help from a million other guys. This girl is clearly out to use him as she did not indicate any interest. It's not about expecting something in return, it's about dignity and self-respect. I'm not saying she's interested, I'm saying that if you're going to help someone, do it without expecting something in return. If you can't or feel you shouldn't, don't do it at all. 'Doing' while 'expecting' is only going to lead to a lot of bitterness later on. We only choose how we interact with others, not how they interact back.
Imajerk17 Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 I ask for a number (and not a date--thats key) by my 3rd email to her. Most of the time they just give it, sometimes they say they're not into talking on the phone so why not just meet up. Which is fine by me. I would tell this girl that IT help doesn't come until maybe the second date. (your emoticon to her so you don't come across as a humorless d1ck).
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