Mae1235 Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Does he really want to be friends I was seeing a guy for 6 months and we knew each other through mutual friends. We had both been in long term relationships that ended about the same time and one night hooked up. After that we were inseperable - he wanted to see me every night, every spare minute I had, I met his family and other friends really early on and we even hung out with them. I was every part of his life. However he would never put a 'status' on our relationship and told me thar from the beginning. I told him we shouldn't see each other as much then because I wanted a boyfriend. He said that I should find aboyfriend but still constantly wanted to hang out with me. It wasn't all about sex because we would hang out like girlfriend and boyfriend - shopping, drinks etc and HE would ask me to do this. All our friends wanted us to be together. Three weeks ago he stopped seeing me and said that he would still be my friend but this all had to end because we could have never had a relationship. He stated that he couldn't deal with the fact I had been with his friend a few months before we hooked up?? And even though it was a year ago since his ex broke up with him, he says he can't be with another girl and has to think about himself. I haven't seen him since all of this and the meeting he promised me hasn't happened. I don't know what to do. Why would he make me such a large part of his life sooo quickly ( basically seeing each other all the time when not at work) if he never wanted us to be anything? Will I really ever see him again now? 0 0
flitzanu Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Does he really want to be friends I was seeing a guy for 6 months and we knew each other through mutual friends. We had both been in long term relationships that ended about the same time and one night hooked up. After that we were inseperable - he wanted to see me every night, every spare minute I had, I met his family and other friends really early on and we even hung out with them. I was every part of his life. However he would never put a 'status' on our relationship and told me thar from the beginning. I told him we shouldn't see each other as much then because I wanted a boyfriend. He said that I should find aboyfriend but still constantly wanted to hang out with me. It wasn't all about sex because we would hang out like girlfriend and boyfriend - shopping, drinks etc and HE would ask me to do this. All our friends wanted us to be together. Three weeks ago he stopped seeing me and said that he would still be my friend but this all had to end because we could have never had a relationship. He stated that he couldn't deal with the fact I had been with his friend a few months before we hooked up?? And even though it was a year ago since his ex broke up with him, he says he can't be with another girl and has to think about himself. I haven't seen him since all of this and the meeting he promised me hasn't happened. I don't know what to do. Why would he make me such a large part of his life sooo quickly ( basically seeing each other all the time when not at work) if he never wanted us to be anything? Will I really ever see him again now? 0 0 first guess? he probably met a new girl that he wants to be his girlfriend.
rAFC Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 I'm sorry, but it sounds like you were his rebound. Basically, he spent time with you in an effort to get over his ex. He did tell you from the beginning that the two of you couldn't have a serious relationship, so he wasn't dishonest about it. 2
Author Mae1235 Posted May 12, 2012 Author Posted May 12, 2012 Yeh thanks he was not dishonest from the start so I guess i knew what I was getting into just hoped it would turn into something more. He spent all his spare time with me and gave me so Many gifts I think I got sucked in thinking he wanted more. He is also 2 years younger than me so maybe he needs time to have more fun before settling down. He may have even met someone else I guess
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