Doona Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 So my ex broke up with me 7 months ago, it was really tough but I got through it. I know sex with the ex is bad but thats what happened for the next 5 months after we broke up. I eventually stopped it and cut off contact with him. Shortly after that I met a really nice guy. We have been taking it slow and its nice to have company again and I do like him. The problem is that sometimes I just feel that Im not ready for another relationship and I do not want to hurt this guy. I really did feel that I had got to a good point with me ex and that I was really over him. Then I will have a day like today where I miss him so much and seeing this other guy doesnt make me feel any better. Feeling like this makes me so confused, I dont know what the hell I want. I also feel like I miss my old life where I lived with my ex and had a nice house together, our cat, days spent in bed cuddling, I miss all of that. I like this new guy and dont want to end it when something good could come of it, but then I dont feel like its fair on him when I still have days where I miss my ex. Why the hell do I feel like this?
darkmoon Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 you might have post-traumatic stress disorder, you've met a new man and it has revived your memory-bank's listings of men, note the design of the human is flawed in other ways too, see your doctor, or nice counsellor (one who understands) you need support to clear your head xx
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