RayJ16 Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 How come girls never call back?- if not interested why give the number in the first place?
undecided Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 dont take it seriously or personally, maybe they arent ready yet, maybe they are afraid. the recieving of the phone number is an acceptance, an optino for the girl, she though you were nice and perhaps thought she could see you the kind of guy she would date. maybe just not right now. forget it dont stress it just remember the acceptance it the next time you run into her. maybe youre upset but be understanding. i know women hate it and ive had girls all but beat up my friends for not calling back... thats why they make triple chocolate fudge ice cream though right?
HoldOn Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 The same reason guys ask for your number and never call... They weren't that interested.
little lamb Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 okay well how long since you called?? chances are she's busy, or playing hard to get....how did you get her number? Did she seem interested in you when she gave it, or did you beg for it?? Like "come on baby its just your number" was she appeasing you?? Wait give time...
Author RayJ16 Posted June 23, 2004 Author Posted June 23, 2004 well as in my other topic we have knew each other about a year, i ask for her number ans she asked for mine, she seemed interested to me. we had some fun times together but the thing is I 've been trying to call her and ask her out about a week and a half, but its eigther shes busy or shes not there. So I try to be patient, I kept try ing to call but she never returns my calls, and now i think its just time to give up on trying to call her, because must not be interested
HoldOn Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 I think you did all you could by calling her. If she doesn't return your calls, there is nothing you can do anyway. It doesn't necessarily mean that she doesn't like you, but maybe she just has too much going on in her life or she is talking to another guy or... who knows. But there is a line between making yourself available and being desperate. She knows you want to go out, now it's her turn to respond... Don't get discouraged!
Author RayJ16 Posted June 23, 2004 Author Posted June 23, 2004 ok Im cool about it now, I was just a liitle angry about it
faux Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 Originally posted by RayJ16 ok Im cool about it now, I was just a liitle angry about it I can understand where you are coming from. I've been spending time with someone the past few months, who I have known for a few years. We both have an interest in one another which was clearly communicated, but her car broke down somewhat. I have no problem going up to see her, and I did see her this past weekend. She was supposed to get back to me Monday with her schedule to meet again, but never has and seems to be ignoring my phone calls. Sometimes she needs time alone to get things done with work, family, and her son, but I'm still a bit angry. Even though it isn't the same as your situation, I wish she would sometimes just tell me she is taking a breathing space because things got stressful. I'm sure you wish this girl had called you to let you know what was going on as well. We just have to keep on with our lives and focus on ourselves. Our special people, or the people we'd like to get closer to, will either call us back when they are ready or they won't. There is no sense in waiting around, I do not think. It is more important to get things done, right?
little lamb Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 sorry ihadn't read your other posting .. . I'm New maybe she's one of those silly girls who have something so awesome they don't know what to do with it....or maybe there is something undiscussed, personal issues, struggles, family life. Its her call now, unfortunately she might loose out on someone who cares enough to actually call. Chances are there is a beautiful girl you'll have twice as much fun as this girl with, just waiting for a guy like you to call her (not too many guys are this worried about whya girl doens't call back, most have already given up). Have yourself a great summer, and wait, maybe in another few days, she'll call and explain and ease your worries, or maybe ina bit a girl will be posting why YOU aren't calling her back....the irony of it all. Enjoy the weather and friends, and dont' stress now...you've got the whole summer to ENJOY!
Author RayJ16 Posted June 23, 2004 Author Posted June 23, 2004 I know, I have to be patient or move on. It just might be a little hard because I really fell in love with her, I even can't stop thinking about her. but li ke i said i have to be patient and if she doesn't respond i'll have to move on.
Author RayJ16 Posted July 30, 2004 Author Posted July 30, 2004 Well, It's been a while, but me and the girl start talking on the phone, it just seems she was very busy. I'm very excited and she seem very happy when I called.
honey2005 Posted August 8, 2004 Posted August 8, 2004 I don't call guys because I'm VERY shy and I would be too afraid. He'd have to call me.
tdog Posted December 23, 2004 Posted December 23, 2004 Yeah, but what about this: I hang out with this girl, we get along great, and after she leaves she text messages our mutual friend to give me her number. So I called her five days later (only b/c I was out of town and wasn't able to call sooner), and she never called back. I tried again yesterday, but so far, no luck. What gives?
blueman Posted December 24, 2004 Posted December 24, 2004 i met this girl about a month ago and we hit it off great and i found myslef calling her 75 % of the time and now after a month of dating i havent heard anything from her for a week. I left her flowers and a card with a nice note and i guess she is just over me or sumthin but yea try and just move on bro if she cant appreciated u and she cant make the effort than it really isnt worth ur time dont trip just go about ur business. When i am desperate and i want a girl i find i cant get any girl interested but when i just focus on bettering myself i get tons of numbers. I think girls can sense when a guy wants a girl or not so maybe just focus on urself and try to not seem so "desperate" to her.
alphamale Posted December 24, 2004 Posted December 24, 2004 Originally posted by RayJ16 How come girls never call back?- if not interested why give the number in the first place? I have said this a number of times but will repeat... IF a woman REALLY and TRULY is into you she will make it VERY EASY for you to hook up with her. The two operative words are REALLY and TRULY...
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