Coffee20 Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Today I woke up and had again another dream about him (god, I am so fed up with those dreams). I realized that he told me in May last year (after 1 month of knowing me) that he kissed last time in February and it was his ex (the one he left me out with on Monday). So now I think that after three months after breaking up with her, he couldn't heal at all. I thought he did because he always told me that she was his mistake and he has never really loved her, he has never missed her etc. and I ignored it.....but he kept talking about her and in January this year he also mentioned that he would like to see her again.....on Monday when they met I just saw the sparkle between them (or maybe I was blind or paranoid) but it seemed to me that yes, he still has to love her.
BewitchedandBothered Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 Today I woke up and had again another dream about him (god, I am so fed up with those dreams). I realized that he told me in May last year (after 1 month of knowing me) that he kissed last time in February and it was his ex (the one he left me out with on Monday). So now I think that after three months after breaking up with her, he couldn't heal at all. I thought he did because he always told me that she was his mistake and he has never really loved her, he has never missed her etc. and I ignored it.....but he kept talking about her and in January this year he also mentioned that he would like to see her again.....on Monday when they met I just saw the sparkle between them (or maybe I was blind or paranoid) but it seemed to me that yes, he still has to love her. Sadly, sounds like he does still have feelings for her. I, too, was a rebound; he even called me by her name a few times; it was humiliating. Talked about her all the freaking time. She was his 'mistake', too. She is engaged to another lady, but he told me he will always love her because 'love never dies'. I only had one dream, and it was very, very sad. In this dream, I was meeting him at a nearby mall; we didn't say much, but it was goodbye and tears flowed from his eyes; I turned and walked away; he watched me walk away....In reality, the only thing that would make him cry is if you took the last slice of pizza from the box, LOL!!!!! How did you manage to see them together, by the way? He never gave himself the chance to heal; just up and dated and used you to try to forget her. Always listen to that inner voice.
Author Coffee20 Posted May 13, 2012 Author Posted May 13, 2012 This Monday I met with him and I thought he would make a piece with me, eventually he would tell me sorry, of course it didn't happened, he only blamed me for everything and called yourself a nice and moral guy..... I was crying and going down the road with him and we met her....they just started to talk and left me there after a while.... Hm I would see him cry only maybe I don't know when, but definitely not for me. I have dreams like he tells me sorry your dream is sad I am sorry that things don't happen like we would like to
BewitchedandBothered Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 This Monday I met with him and I thought he would make a piece with me, eventually he would tell me sorry, of course it didn't happened, he only blamed me for everything and called yourself a nice and moral guy..... I was crying and going down the road with him and we met her....they just started to talk and left me there after a while.... Hm I would see him cry only maybe I don't know when, but definitely not for me. I have dreams like he tells me sorry your dream is sad I am sorry that things don't happen like we would like to It's good you let him go; no sense in trying to vy for the attention of someone who is clearly not over their past. It's healthy for you; it may not feel like that, but it's healthy. And chances are, he will blame her for things as well. People like this project. Everything my ex blamed me for, was all stuff he did. Everything he criticized me about, and there was a lot of criticism, was all stuff he did. His new g/f got the boobie prize and so did your ex's ex. I feel awful for you that you had to see them together like that, but.....it is a form of closure. The dreams are symbolic. My dream gave me closure; I got to say goodbye, whereas in reality, there was no real closure; he was hurtful and abusive and it had to end. The dream made me feel better in some ways, though. You are in healing mode. Your ex sounds like a chump for treating you this way.
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