Chrisal23 Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Ok so me and my ex broke up a month again. She broke up with me. So I contacted her a week ago and we talked a lot, without arguing in the beginning. In that month other boys wanted to go out with her and she claims that although she chilled with them that they couldn't compare to me. At first that felt good but now I'm furious how she could go out with other people do quick. Today she was at a party and I called her and she said she couldnt talk. Honestly I felt dumb and a little after she sent a text saying Mybad I'm not home. Im frustrated at this point cause she's at the better end right now. She said as of right now she dosent want to go out with me, but she loves me. Any advice anyone? I'm not going to be used again!
BCCA Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Consider this thing completely over, delete her from your phone and block her number. Get rid of anything that reminds you of her, any pictures of you two, and remove her on facebook/twitter/etc etc... Shes having her cake and eating it, too, at your expense. She doesnt want to be with you, but she doesnt want to be completely single without any male attention, either. She doesnt have to 'work' for your affection, a text will get whatever ego boost she needs. She is playing you like a fiddle, and being quite selfish. You ARE being used, dont stand for that. Drop her like a hot rock, remove anything related to her from your life, and focus on moving on without her. Youll be on this roller coaster ride as long as youll put up with this, OR until she finds someone else - and when she does (not if, WHEN) you can forget about seeing or hearing from her again. Right now, youre slightly better than nothing. Thats it...this is not good for you, end it.
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