HurtPup Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 I started thinking (a very dangerous thing)..but.. When it comes to getting over a breakup, it's becoming clearer to me what the difficult part is... Yes, we miss the PERSON...but, I think, getting over the person has alot to do with the adjustment of life without them. For example, if he always called you at 2:00 every day, it's the process of becoming accustomed to them not calling anymore. I know this sounds elementary, but there's really something to it. Me and my bf broke up a few months ago, and we talk every so often (yes, I know it's a big no-no). He doesn't seem to be doing well with the adjustment of the situation. I feel like I'm beginning to get used to life without him. He said last night "this sucks". And yes, it does...I miss him and I still love him. But I said to him, "be honest, isn't your life less stressful without all the problems that our relationship brought?" I know mine is...even though I still think of him alot, and my heart breaks when I think of what we had. But "had" is the thing I keep repeating to myself. I feel like I've almost "broken the habit" (almost, I still have some healing to do). A relationship is full of certain habits you had with that person, and it's learning to break those habits that help in getting over the person. Does this make sense?
EnigmaXOXO Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 Does this make sense? It sure does!! And the longer you are with someone, the more difficult it becomes.
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