Breck Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Do any of you ever wonder what your ex would think if they read your posts? Imagine reading your posts to your ex right now. "I don't know..., maybe if I..., do you think..., what did she mean by..., WHAT IF..." The best advice I can give is DO NOT contact your ex while you are posting these comments. The power in the relationship lies with the one who needs it the least. Don't ask questions, look for validation, or next steps. IGNORE them. The faster you heal, the better off you'll be (and the better chance you'll have of THEM winning YOU back). Take life day by day and remove them from your thoughts a little more each day. It's hard, REALLY HARD (that's what she said), but we have all been survivors of heartbreak at one time or another, so if we can do it, we know you can too. So remember: In relationships, communication is important. In breakups, fewer words are important (less is better). Don't go for the home run with your emotions. Bunt and get on base (she'll respect you more). After that. NC! Don't ask for how long. Go NC until you accidentally bump into her years later and don't even recognize her, then sleep with her best friend. YOU'RE NOT READY to see your ex until you are ready to stop visiting this site. So while you're here, forget about her, and let's talk about something else.
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