supergirl1213 Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 without actually telling him straight up. (i'm too shy and scared!!!) I do think he likes me ....either that or he is really friendly. he seems to pay me special attention. so what should I do, I want things to move along. Right now we playfully flirt with one another, how can I get things moving on to the next level?
BewitchedandBothered Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Just tell him you are interested. Some fellows don't seem to read signals or they misinterpret them. Be honest and be yourself.
spiderowl Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Smile, laugh, let him know you like him. Touch him, on his arm, pat him on the back in play, that kind of thing, little hints that you don't mind being a bit closer. Tell him how well the both of you seem to get on. Give him opportunities to spend time with you. Mention places you'd like to go to, things you'd like to see. Invite him to your parties/events. Tell him about events you are going to that would be open to him. If, after all the above, he doesn't ask you to go out somewhere with him, then he's really slow on the uptake! 1
ohmygoshistalk Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 "i like you a lot, youre funny we should hang out some time" some people dont get hints its better to just say it.
Pierre Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Touch him often while talking to him. When walking close to him touch with with your boobs, that is the most powerful message you can send.
TaurusTerp Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Those who are passive and weak will never win in any field of life.
WhiteChocolate Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Those who are passive and weak will never win in any field of life. Lighten up. Life isn't about winning. And not everyone is naturally bold. OP: Keep right on flirting! And maybe suggest things that you two could do together, so you have some one-on-one time and get to know each other. Find reasons to touch him flirtatiously. Spiderowl gave some great advice. Good luck.
BCCA Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 WhiteChocolate is on the right path! Suggest that you two do something together, even something as innocent as get coffee or have lunch. Ask him what hes doing on the weekend, and when he talkes about stuff say 'that sounds fun'. If he likes you, and you do these couple of things, he'll get the point and ask you to come along. I think saying 'i like you and want to pursue romantic endevours with you' or something like that is awkward, and unneccesary. Keep flirting and touching, say he looks nice or some compliments, and try to put yourselves together as much as possible, be it lunch, and weekend movie, etc... The best one I remember a girl using on me is 'I dont have anyone to go see [insert movie title] with..." to which I quickly said "I'll go!" Worked like a charm, she was smooth lol
notaneatfreak Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 just tell him - that's what i do. i don't care about getting burned, i am so used to getting burned i am finally tired of playing games so if i tell the guy flat out i like him then i don't really care because then the pain of lingering on doesn't happen and the what ifs.
EternalInk Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Touch him often while talking to him. When walking close to him touch with with your boobs, that is the most powerful message you can send. :lmao:
Author supergirl1213 Posted May 12, 2012 Author Posted May 12, 2012 well we work together so I don't want things to be awkward if he isn't interested. I really think he is interested though. He texts me a lot, he always asks me to go on break with him (the other day he even texted me before I got in to tell him when we should go on break) his voice gets softer around me. He always seems to be around where I am. How can I be sure he likes me? I have no problem hinting at going places, in fact I already have. And he said he would go and that it sounded fun-- to some girls party who we both know. I actually just left work and he thought I was going on break and got a little excited but then I said I was leaving and he was disappointed, saying I was leaving him all alone with nobody to talk to. All in all we are playfully flirty with one another. I don't act/text/talk to other guys liek I do him. I think must know I am at least kind of interested from our convos... Hopefully he will text me later on....
mortensorchid Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 I don't know about that. When I have said in the past "I like you" or ask the man to do something, he immediately dries up and vanishes. If you have already done so, I wish you the best of luck in this. I find that the minute you start acting like you are interested they suddenly get all stand offish with you. But maybe that's my bad luck with bad men talking. I'm sure he's not as rotten as some I have encountered in the past.
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