Han88 Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 I have liked this guy for a while but he has been giving me mixed signals lately and I'm very confused. What do you think: He doesn't like me: Telling people he doesn't like me Saying that my guy friend and I should be a couple He does like me: Flirting with me (rarely) Being nice to me Listening to what I say Smiling at me* Taking a genuine interest in what I say Laughing at all the jokes I say Staring at me My guy friends and my brother who are all friends with him asked if he liked me. He answered with nah, just like a friend. My brother asked if I was a nice friend and he said yes. The guy I liked was smiling a little bit but my brother said he was embarrassed. The guy I liked said can we just go to bed because they had a sleepover. My brother also said that he felt he was maybe avoiding the subject. I'm just sooo confused. What do you think it means? Does he like me or did he just got embarrassed by talking about girls. He is also kinda a shy. My friend saw his eyes dilate when he was looking at me. What should I do?
Vintage79 Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 What you should do... If you like him/want to get to know him better, ask him out or give him pretty blatant signals. If you don't like him/want to get to know him, don't worry about it...
Quiet Storm Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Well, you should never mistake kindness for interest. Many people are nice just because that is how they have been socialized to be. However, if you like him, I would put myself in his vicinity more. If he shows interest, reciprocate. If he looks at you, look back. Catch his gaze for a second and then look down. See if he comes over. If he ignores you, move on.
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